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What should I think ?

  • 01-06-2011 7:24pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey guys !


    So I've met this guy in Spring '10. We talked a lot ! Every night, texting every day, and we found we had a lot in common.
    He wanted to see me last July but due to illness I wasn't in a position to see him. He was fine with it. We finally got to see each other in September. It went well we talked a lot !

    We saw each other 6 or 7 times total. At first he seemed very interested but as I kept turning down his dates propositions he became fed up and just gave up. I clearly wasn't in a position to see him due to my illness and I didn't want to tell him. Plus, I was having a really bad depression which didn't exactly help.

    Before giving up, he had told me he liked me but I didn't really respond the way I wanted to. Then, yesterday I asked him out we talked and made-out a bit. But I had to tell him I was going to live in Dublin next year which made him second-guess everything since he actually lives in Belfast.

    He sent me this morning a very sharp message saying that it was going nowhere since I'm leaving and how we shouldn't be together but he wouldn't mind being " friends ". I really like him.

    What is that supposed to mean ? Is it totally over ?


    Thanks.


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  • #2
    Odaise Gaelach
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,235 ✭✭✭Odaise Gaelach


    Pretty_Lights wrote: »
    He sent me this morning a very sharp message saying that it was going nowhere since I'm leaving and how we shouldn't be together but he wouldn't mind being " friends ". I really like him.

    What is that supposed to mean ? Is it totally over ?

    I'm afraid so.


  • #3
    Peanut2011
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,001 ✭✭✭Peanut2011


    OP, it would appear he wanted proper relationship and knowing that you were moving away and previous date rejections are not want he wanted.

    I would say it is over.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yeah, that's what he told me. Like he wanted a " proper relationship " not some kind of " ghost relationship ". He said he didn't know if we could see each other.

    But it's actually weird considering he kissed me. I feel like a fraud although he told me he won't forget me. That's really really strange.


    Now I'm even second-guessing whether he really liked me or not.


  • #5
    Alter-Ego
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,324 ✭✭✭Alter-Ego


    As the above posters have said. Its over. The logistics of the long distance relationship is probably too much for the guy.


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