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Problems With Women

  • 30-05-2011 9:44pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I really want to say goodbye to my current girlfriend as we've grown further apart (in my mind) these last few months. The problem is, I don't want to say goodbye because I haven't been given any indication as to how I will be after the breakup. For example, she was the first women I've ever slept with (I've never been with anyone else) and I'm finding it difficult to imagine life on the women front after her.

    I'm not a bad looking guy and I get a lot of female attention in the group but never can I really see myself sleeping with them. When I go out, I see a lot of attractive girls but I'm not sure how to approach them having been out of the game for so long. In a way, girls need to come up to me because although I'm a great speaker, I can't see myself being rejected having walked up to someone else. Perhaps, I'm just going to all the wrong places but my night usually consists of bar/smoking area/bar/smoking area. I find that I'm better in some situations more so than others - the dancefloor is completely out of the question. I guess what I'm saying is, I lost my mojo. If women tell me I'm very attractive, then my question is, why am I not getting any of them? This little insecurity is keeping me with someone I don't love anymore. My only worry is, how long will it last? :(


Comments

  • #2
    Johnny Bitte
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,099 ✭✭✭Johnny Bitte


    First off end it with your partner, its selfish just to hang on to her because you a scared. She'll probably hate you for but that's just the way things go.

    If your as attractive as you think you are you should have no problems meeting another person. The areas you hang out are the area's people meet. The dance floor is usually a place to drive women away.


  • #3
    chloek
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 202 ✭✭chloek


    gotitbadguy wrote: »
    I really want to say goodbye to my current girlfriend as we've grown further apart (in my mind) these last few months. The problem is, I don't want to say goodbye because I haven't been given any indication as to how I will be after the breakup. For example, she was the first women I've ever slept with (I've never been with anyone else) and I'm finding it difficult to imagine life on the women front after her.
    (

    It's natural you are apprehensive but you will be fine. Don't rush into another relationship straight away just enjoy being on your own for awhile.


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