Oddhousemate

LegacyUser

Hi folks

I just moved into a new house around a month ago,Im living with 2 girls and a fella,the house is perfect,Im getting along with most of the housemates bar one of the girls,I have never met such a pig of a women in all my life,when i first moved into the house i tried to introduce myself to her and she just grunted and walked past me,she never cleans up after herself and lets bins overflow and it never occurs to her to empty them.Recently we had ants in the house and when i came home the house was covered in ant powder,the place was a mess from it and she had gone home the weekend without bothering to clean it up, so it was me who had to clean up the mess, i told the other housemate does she act the same way towards him,he said she did and that he didntt like her or her attitude!!he only moved into the house the week before me,Recently i noticed she likes to turn on the washing machine late at night when im in bed,the washing machine is right beside my bedroom such she knows its going to wake me up,im starting to wonder is she starting to try to play a sick game,Has anybody ever lived with someone like this and how they can resolve it,i dont want to cause tension in the house

LegacyUser

If it was me Id just move out, its not worth the hassle to live with someone that bothers you so much. Maybe your other housemate could sit her down and voice your concerns but to be fair if she's been there the longest she probably wont take too kindly to being ganged up on by the two newbies.

MagicMarker

Speak to the other girl, if the 3 of you don't like her then I would try and get her thrown out. If that's not an option then I would move out, no way I would live in that kind environment.

dee o gee

Sounds exactly like my ex housemate. Never emptied the bins, took a few days to wash her dishes, had people over late at night listening to music and watching films loud not even trying to keep noise down, laughing at you when you asked politely to keep it down because you'd to be up early for college, late paying her share of bills, having mad parties and not apologizing for them and taking a few days to clean up afterwards (after one particular party she decided to start cleaning at 4am smashing bottles into bags before having a shower at 5am while singing loudly :rolleyes:).

Probably doesn't help but made me feel better knowing when she came home at 7 or 8am to go to bed after a night out just as I was getting up for college I usta make no effort trying to keep quiet, slammed a few doors, put on a few tunes, put on the tumble dryer, just made as much noise as possible just going about my normal morning things.

Landlady was well aware of it and had to ring her a few times to get her to clean up after herself both in the apartment and the hallways after one particular party.

Best thing is maybe talk to her first and see if you get anywhere there, if no change then maybe talk to your landlord to see if he/she can give her a warning.