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Did he cum?

  • 18-05-2011 10:09pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Sexually inexperienced woman...

    Had sex for 2nd time last week and the guy seemed to be having some difficulty keeping his penis inside for long amounts of time because of tightness... we were at it for a good while and what seemed like fairly suddenly to me, he stopped. Then fell asleep pretty quick smart. I get the impression he got a bit frustrated and gave up... He also left the condom on afterwards which adds to my suspicion. Not really in a position to ask him... as it was a one time thing.

    I'm a bit disappointed if he didn't cum. Anyone any insights? Thanks.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,289 ✭✭✭parker kent


    Well he may or he may not have, obviously we can't say for sure. It sounds like he might not have since the condom was left on, but again it is just speculation.

    Since it was a one time thing, don't be surprised it happened like that. They are often pretty unfulfilling as good sex often requires an understanding of each other (i.e what you both like sexually). Plus since it is your second time, it's natural you won't have perfected it. The guy sounds like he might be pretty inexperienced himself, so don't worry too much.

    Practice makes perfect!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    What do you mean 'tightness'? Could it be that he kept slipping out because he was going soft?

    Sounds like he didn't come if he left the condom on - I don't know any bloke who'd go asleep with a, err, 'full' condom on.

    Anyway, don't beat yourself up about it if he didn't come, it doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with you. Sometimes blokes just find it hard to come for whatever reason.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for the responses.

    He is actually very experienced so that's why I thought it was odd. And no, he definitely didn't go soft. He seemed pretty happy the next day and didn't mention anything. But I still have doubts... we did stay in someone else's house though. Perhaps he was trying to avoid making a mess?

    Anyway, you're right in saying it's not that important. Just a bit strange...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 936 ✭✭✭Fentdog84


    Wouldnt worry it often happens. Perhaps he was over ancious, tired or drunk.


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