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what is his game!!?

  • 17-05-2011 3:07pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi all just baffled by recent ish ex (well christmas)
    was seeing guy from august till xmas when suddenly he lost interest basically but was too much of coward to say it! we stayed in contact till about march and that was it really until now. it started off him being more into me than i into him, then basically i fell for him really bad and then he went all cold!

    anyway fast track to last weekend- bumped into him out - at meeting- i was in middle one - he going to one- so just acknowledged each other- didnt have time for anything apart from a hi.

    Well ever since he has txted 4 times over last 3 days(i havent replied to any), wanting to meet for coffee hour after meeting, then continuously asking how i was. like really what is his game? i am totally wrecked in head, seeing him again helped and didnt help. ive only recently started seeing a nice guy- not going out just meeting- and now here he comes along and casts doubt on everything- am raging i feel this way. why is he doing this? he wouldnt know about new guy. any advice out there :(
    hate male mind!!!!


Comments

  • #2
    missrandomer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭missrandomer


    tricky one this, but my opinion is that he is just "seein if he stil got it"

    stay well clear of any meet ups etc. All it will do will show him he can stil have you.

    Your better than his little ego boost, he missed out, his loss and your new nice guy's gain.

    People are in your past for a reason..... leave them there x


  • #3
    IrishEyes19
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,861 ✭✭✭IrishEyes19


    You've said it yourself........what's his game!!! It's an ego boost most likely. Read over your post. You're seeing a really nice guy, trust your instincts and see how it goes with the nice guy. This guy if he wanted you would have made contact since then and asked you out properly. Texting randomly after a run-in, isn't adult behaviour, its teenage like. So let him do his own thing, if he really likes you, he'd pick up the phone or at least account for his on/off behaviour. Id let this one slide if I were you.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks all, i know ye are right just needed a few second oppinions!! much better today! thanks again :)


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