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Stepfather

  • 13-05-2011 9:23pm
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    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,562 ✭✭✭✭


    I know its after hours but here goes, What does it mean legally to be come a step father and how do you become one :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,943 ✭✭✭abouttobebanned


    Head back to reception dude. You're lost.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,418 ✭✭✭✭hondasam


    realies wrote: »
    I know its after hours but here goes, What does it mean legally to be come a step father and how do you become one :)

    Are you old enough to know about the birds and the bees ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 361 ✭✭breadandjam


    You marry someone who has a child and that's it Stepfather is not a legal status AFAIK.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,898 ✭✭✭✭Ken.


    If your mother marries a guy he has to formally adopt you to be your stepfather. until then he's technically just your mothers husband.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 48 steve_cass


    You need to find an abandoned or orphaned step and then adopt it ... simples


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,283 ✭✭✭Glico Man


    realies wrote: »
    I know its after hours but here goes, What does it mean legally to be come a step father and how do you become one :)

    Marry someone who has a child/children and then legally adopt them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,571 ✭✭✭Aoifey!


    Marry someone who as a child, and you're the child's stepfather.


  • Business & Finance Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 32,387 Mod ✭✭✭✭DeVore


    When two steps love each other very much...



    DeV.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,485 ✭✭✭Thrill


    It's when you cant reach something because it's too high, so you get your father to lay on the floor and you step on him. Stepfather

    Kinda like a stepladder.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,838 ✭✭✭theboss80


    realies wrote: »
    I know its after hours but here goes, What does it mean legally to be come a step father and how do you become one :)

    Stepfather is just a term, do you mean adopt the child? is so then you and your partner have to both adopt the child. Theres alot of info on the citizens advice website


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,408 ✭✭✭Captain_Generic


    You must leave the Temple of Doom with both the statue AND the bag of sand


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,427 ✭✭✭Morag


    Depends.

    It means you marry a woman who has a kid.

    In one case you have no legal or financial obligation to the child what so ever and no legal relationship under law despite being now legally the spouse of the mother and next of kin. You are also not the legal guardian of the kid so if there is a Father on the scene and your mrs up and dies, no matter how many years the kid has been living with you as a family he get to take the kid.

    In the other you also apply to adopt the kid and make it legally your own, so you have legal rights and responsibility under law.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,838 ✭✭✭theboss80


    Sharrow wrote: »
    Depends.

    It means you marry a woman who has a kid.

    In one case you have no legal or financial obligation to the child what so ever and no legal relationship under law despite being now legally the spouse of the mother and next of kin. You are also not the legal guardian of the kid so if there is a Father on the scene and your mrs up and dies, no matter how many years the kid has been living with you as a family he get to take the kid.

    In the other you also apply to adopt the kid and make it legally your own, so you have legal rights and responsibility under law.

    Thats not entirely true, unless the mother was either married to the father of the child when it was born or they (natural parents) both signed the statutory declaration after the child was born if unmarried.

    http://www.citizensinformation.ie/en/birth_family_relationships/cohabiting_couples/legal_guardianship_and_unmarried_couples.html


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 24,144 Mod ✭✭✭✭robinph


    aaronh007 wrote: »
    Marry someone who has a child/children and then legally adopt them

    If you adopt the kids then you are then the kids father, no step involved at all.

    If your merely married to the mother then you are the step-father.


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