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  • 02-05-2011 10:06am
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    LegacyUser
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    Hello, hoping for some advice...I was in a 2 year relationship recently with a man who was an old flame of mine, we broke up years ago due to geography.
    Now again he has to leave to work abroad soon and I cannot travel for 1-2 more years due to commitments. I told him I would wait for him if I had a commitment that we would be faithful..at first he said he wanted to leave it open, and I was heartbroken and told him I could not do that as I was in love with him..we did not see each other for 3 months but he texted constantly. I got no Valentine from him and cried. Then Bill who I was casual friends with asked me at end of Feb did I get a Valentine from BF and I told him no. Bill sent me lots of flowers and told me he wants to be more than friends and he makes me so happy, he is just lovely.
    Now first man has started to ring me after 4months of just texting and no meeting. I told him I am dating Bill and at first he said he wanted to thump Bill, now he rings crying down the phone at all hours. I feel terrible but I really really like Bill the more I know him.
    I am back dating after a loss 4years ago of a 25year relationship..I could write all I know about men on a postage stamp. How do I handle the calls ? I don't want to be mean.
    Grateful for any advice.


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