Need boardsies advice about random encounter

LegacyUser

Going unreg, regular poster. Out Monday night with some friends. At one point, notice a girl on dancefloor, I kinda flirting with her later a one stage. Anyway, nothing came of it till the end of the night, when we got talking outside. (Usual stuff, college, work etc) Long story short, we kissed and she told me to make sure I get in touch the next day.

Problem is, despite remembering what she studies, her college, what year she is in, her friends name and where she lives. I cannot for the life of me remember her name. (Despite her writing it on my chest, along with her phone number)

Tried calling straight to her voicemail, was default network carrier response
Ended up texting her the next night, as her about facebook - she said she would add me, so at that point I'm thinking "awesome, will know her name this way and she wont be any the wiser". Haven't text her since, and no sign of any new friend requests on facebook.



Current options:
Play it cool for another few days and see if she gets in touch?

Or try think of another cunning plan like get a friend to ring "who's this? oh wrong number I'm looking for XYZ" - (I personally think this method is too risky though, might not work, and even if it did, its kinda obvious)


Boards.ie I ask, what do?

Thanks

smiles302

Wait a few days, see if she adds you. Don't worry about it.

Even if she doesn't, text and ask her out for coffee or something.

mood

If she replied to you text just ask her out and ask for her e-mail address so you can add her to facebook. If she hasn't replied move on.

LegacyUser

Replied to text about adding to facebook

I defo text the right number!



Still no word, you guys think I should wait till Friday and see if shes up for a coffee? Or you think the fact she hasn't added me/ text again, mean shes not interested?

Thanks guys!!

cantdecide

Google her number with various combinations of brackets and spaces. You might find some old reference to an accomodation ad or similar. If you like this girl enough to potentially make a fool, you may as well just come clean. There's also a chance she may have sat in front of her PC to figure out she'd got your name wrong! Have you a decent profile pic up?

I'd give it one last ditch attempt and say something like "So I'm still holding out for that friend request". I know its a little stalky/ pushy sounding but this could solve both of your problems.

At least if she ignores you, you have certainty.

profitius

The balls in her court now. Do nothing until she does something otherwise you'll look too keen and women get turned off by that.

minidazzler

Um...why can't you just ask her? Do it in a funny way, but ask her directly! It's not as sad or devastating as you would think, just say you were hammered and remember everything but her name!

GreenFaery

Do you know anyone that's fb friends with her. Because she might be tagged in one of their photos....

Ken.

Does the college she's in have a list of students. If you know the course you might be able to check the yearbook. If you can surely her name would jump out at you