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Mind Games?

  • 06-04-2011 10:55am
    #1
    Ouch_Hurt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    my boyfriend split up with me saying he needed space to see how he really felt about me..he text me a couple of days later to say thankyou for something Id done,i replied with a 'no problem', we didnt have contact for a few days but due to business had to be - i kept it polite and professional - he turned it into a conversation about how I am, how work is etc etc etc. We were at an event a few days later and he couldnt speak to me quick enough, I was friendly but cool, two drinks later and we're in bed..no contact for a few days and then I txt him..conversation was started up all over again..all just chit chat really..how am I how was my wkend etc etc. So I decided this was all too conufsing and it was really hurting me..I arranged to meet him for a coffee and a chat..I told him right now we couldnt be friends it was too soon I needed time and No Contact. He was unbelieveably cold, said it was me contacting him and he still has time for me thats why he was asking about me, he said if I needed to hate him that was fine and that he wont contact me..he said he'd like to be friends..he wasnt over me etc but that he didnt have anything to say to me at the moment because he didnt know how he felt. I asked him to not contact me and said goodbye. Im hurt,confused and heartbroken but have deleted every number,email ,facebook etc etc
    I just dont know what to do with Myself now..kinda feel empty :(


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi
    Sorry to hear you are feeling like that.
    I went through ten months of similar stuff with my mind games. Except for the bed part as we were both seperated by 16000km but he still managed to mess with my head and play with my emotions constantly. Because of how hard the break up was, it has taken me til just recently to be very strong and cut all contact and ties and i feel a better person for it.
    You will get there too - it will take time
    I hope it all works out for you


  • #3
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    Ouch_Hurt wrote: »
    I just dont know what to do with Myself now..kinda feel empty :(

    All you have to do is let time pass. It's the hardest and the easiest thing in the world to do.


  • #4
    Ouch_Hurt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭Ouch_Hurt


    Yeah the NC thing is definately needed, its tough because at times we have to see each other (tonight being one of them) but I guess I just have to toughen up - Ive never really had a broken heart before, its tough!!! But was being made so much tougher by him pretending that he cared or not so much pretending that he cared but caring just not enough to be with me as my boyfriend...that really hurts. Im hoping this is one broken heart that mends quickly!


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