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Best Friend is seeing a guy I used to date....

  • 06-04-2011 10:04am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok this isnt really something i'm worried about, but just wanted to get other people's opinions on it.

    About 8 years ago I was sort of seeing a guy for about a year on and off. Thing was I was absolutely crazy about him

    Roll on 8 years and i'm now married to a wonderful man. However my best friend has started seeing this guy (she also knew him years ago when I was seeing him)

    I'm just wondering would you find this wierd?


Comments

  • #2
    I am a friend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭I am a friend


    Not at all.. There is a small pool of 'eligibles' so its no surprise that friends from similar groups hook up... Good luck to her.


  • #3
    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    As you're in a permanent relationaship its not weird. If you were still single it would be a bit of a kick in the teeth.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    ok thanks boardsies. yeah i pretty much had the same opinion but i think my friend thought they might be over stepping an unspoken boundary or something.

    I just want to see my friend being happy at the end of the day.


  • #5
    cafecolour
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭cafecolour


    As said above, 8 years later for a one year (one and off) relationship, is nothing. Doubly so that you're married.

    Now if it was 1 year later after an 8 year relationship, and you were still hurting, then yes it would be out of order.


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