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  • 04-04-2011 9:26pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I need some advice please.

    I am due to meet up with a man from online during the easter holidays to partake in some fetish activities that we are both interested in.

    I chat to him regularly on the phone and he seems sound. He is not pushy or stalkerish with calls or messages or anything like that and I am fairly happy with him.

    I have a question. Im overweight. I am 5ft 4, and 15 stone. My question is would guys be put off with tummy flab. This is the only thing that is making me have second thoughts about meeting up with him. (Last time i was in a relationship or with a man i wasnt this weight). Dont want to miss or give up such a wonderful opportunity.
    We have exchanged photos and I was clothed so my tummy was not on show.


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Any advice for me. op here


  • #3
    Roselm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 753 ✭✭✭Roselm


    I.want.2.meet.him wrote: »
    I need some advice please.

    I am due to meet up with a man from online during the easter holidays to partake in some fetish activities that we are both interested in.

    I chat to him regularly on the phone and he seems sound. He is not pushy or stalkerish with calls or messages or anything like that and I am fairly happy with him.

    I have a question. Im overweight. I am 5ft 4, and 15 stone. My question is would guys be put off with tummy flab. This is the only thing that is making me have second thoughts about meeting up with him. (Last time i was in a relationship or with a man i wasnt this weight). Dont want to miss or give up such a wonderful opportunity.
    We have exchanged photos and I was clothed so my tummy was not on show.

    Hi OP,
    Not a guy so can't give you info from that perspective but if you showed him a picture of you he could probably tell from your face/body shape what sort of build you are. Maybe he's into curvy women.
    I'd say go for it!:)


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 3,505 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    If it's bothering you that much, let him know beforehand. Explain it to him.

    He's seen a picture of you. Unless he's never seen a real naked woman before, I'm sure he knows what to expect from a clothed picture of you.

    Relax and have a good time!

    (With regards to the fact you're meeting someone from the internet, I assume you've got a plan B in case things go badly? You say you know from talking to him that he's not a weirdo or anything, but I'd let someone know where you'll be if I were you. Have a plan B just in case.)


  • #5
    effluent
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 209 ✭✭effluent


    Hi op,

    I'm a fella and a bit of love handles never put me off the job. But it depends what the fetish activities are?


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