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Should I tell her how I feel ?

  • 31-03-2011 12:40pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I suppose I should just get straight to it,

    I met her nearly a year ago through a mutual friend, I immediately fancied her and asked her out. Since then we have been on and off every few months, seeing other people in between and we remained good friends. In january we decided to make it official. For some reason, and I still have no idea why, she decided to break up after a week. I took this as a definite sign that we just weren't compatible as a couple.

    For the next month I tried to get over her and I succeeded, kind of. Then around paddy's week she started (drunkenly) texting me, asking why I didn't care for her, and why I didn't tell her how I feel (I should mention that I wasn't neglecting our friendship, we have the same group of mates) This continued for a few days ending when she asked me if I loved her on Paddy's day. I was kind of shocked and didn't know what to say. She stormed off. A few days later we met up, and decided to try to be friends again. At the time I thought this was for the best, but over the past 2 weeks I've started to really regret this. I've been debating in my head whether to tell her how I feel. I just don't know what to do, because I don't want to be back at square one with me being dumped and having to reforge our friendship again.


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  • #2
    PK2008
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    Well first off, how do you feel?


  • #3
    flowerchild
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 534 ✭✭✭flowerchild


    Should you tell her how you feel? Always, regardless of consequence. Be upfront and truthful.


  • #4
    santana75
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭santana75


    Absolutley not. She had her shot with you and now when she gets drunk she decides she likes you again. Game player. Dont waste your time, DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    PK2008 wrote:
    Well first off, how do you feel?

    I have no idea. One moment I feel like I all I want is her, the next I remember that she won't change and it will just end up with me being hurt again. It doesn't help that I see her nearly everyday when I'm with the group.
    santana75 wrote:
    Absolutely not. She had her shot with you and now when she gets drunk she decides she likes you again. Game player. Dont waste your time, DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.

    This is kinda what I was thinking.


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