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Regrets

  • 27-03-2011 12:57am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I am regretting a recent relationship i had with someone. We got close and i revealed a bit to him but now I realise he is actually quite immature and probably inexperienced with relationships. I don't know why I thought i could trust him, he was 10 years older than me and i know age does'nt matter but i didnt think he would blab everything i told him to his friends. there are things like he would say, that he was having sex with me and to busy to meet up, i just thought that was childish like a teenager telling everyone he got some. Another issue is about a medical issue i have, i thought the right thing to do was tell him but he told others about it and he jokes about it to me even though he knows i am sensitive about it. i feel like i can't trust easily again and don't want to tell to much of myself if i get into another relationship like that. i don't even want to talk to him again. it annoys me so much how little thought he has for me. do i tell him never to contact me again?


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  • #2
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Mrsclaus wrote: »
    I am regretting a recent relationship i had with someone. We got close and i revealed a bit to him but now I realise he is actually quite immature and probably inexperienced with relationships. I don't know why I thought i could trust him, he was 10 years older than me and i know age does'nt matter but i didnt think he would blab everything i told him to his friends. there are things like he would say, that he was having sex with me and to busy to meet up, i just thought that was childish like a teenager telling everyone he got some. Another issue is about a medical issue i have, i thought the right thing to do was tell him but he told others about it and he jokes about it to me even though he knows i am sensitive about it. i feel like i can't trust easily again and don't want to tell to much of myself if i get into another relationship like that. i don't even want to talk to him again. it annoys me so much how little thought he has for me. do i tell him never to contact me again?

    So don't talk to him! Just cut him out. Don't bother telling him not to contact you, just block his email/Facebook/whatever and ignore his calls & texts. It'll take 2 weeks max for him to get the message. Stop letting him live rent-free in your head.


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