Should i be worried?

worried.com

Hi all

Just looking to see what your opinion is on this.

Tonight i took a look through my internet history and i seen lots of links for Irish Independent escorts. My husband has been here all day alone and nobody else uses the computer but myself. I'm going away for the weekend and I'm up the walls here thinking he is planning to meet an Escort.

I suppose what i want to know if I'm over reacting and that maybe he was looking out of curiously or am i foolish to think that? what would you think if it was your husband?

rainbow kirby

Moved from tLL to PI.

Asphyxia

You should confront him about it, if nobody only yourself uses that computet then he must have been looking them up. It might of been out of curiousity but I would suggest chatting with about it. You'll get sick from worry if you don't

worried.com

I will confront him about it but i know he is going to give an excuse either way, sure what else can he do!

We have kids and my mum is minding them this weekend while he works nights (the more i type the more i feel sick)

I honestly think (thought) our relationship was fine in all aspects (maybe I'm wrong!)

worried.com

It's the norm for him to work weekend nights only difference been i'm not there to mind the kids this weekend.

I don't know what to think now!

LegacyUser

I wouldn't usually advocate this, but when he's not looking, check his last dialled numbers. If there's numbers without contacts associated to them, note them and call them tomorrow.

As far as I know, the way these agencies work is that you find what you want online and then you have to call them. You're not allowed text or call from a private number.

If you find numbers and call them, tell them you're responding to their online ad and see their reaction. Don't do it from your own phone and obviously it has to be without the use of private number.

As a lad who has checked out these sites before for nothing but curiosity, I'd usually just brush this off as the same, but if it's the first time you've found this and it co-incides with you going away, I would certainly be suspicious.

Does he usually watch porn or the like online?If so, it's more likely that it's nothing. If he's not really into porn, I'd be more suspicious again.

Alternatively you could just bring it up casually - "Checking out those online escorts,eh? Hope you're not after one of them poles, you know they eat swans" etc etc and gauge his reaction.

Horrible situation though because if he did have intentions and confesses, you've a terrible thing to deal with and if he doesn't it's going to be playing on your mind regardless.

Best of luck with whatever you do.

Darlughda

Sorry to say it, OP, but as a single woman on dating sites, you would not believe the amount of married men on there. And the lies that they tell me, themselves and no doubt, their wives about why they are on these sites.

I am sick to the back teeth of trying to be one step ahead of them and block them as soon as I suspect they are not as single or seperated as they claim to be.

However, if your internet history is showing up escorts, well that is at least straightforward and it means your husband was checking out sex workers.