Horny 24/7

gayguy2009

Hey guys,

Well I have been single for nearly a year now and I'm over my last relationship. But I find myself horny all the time, all I want is sex right now. I don't have any problems finding a guy to have sex with, but I don't want to be sleeping around. Obviously I would love another bf, but its hard to find someone I'm compatible with in the gay community. I find myself masturbating almost 4/5 times a day! Does anyone else have this sexual frustration? Does anyone have any ways of dealing with this?

Ickle Magoo

Folks, can I remind you that sexually explicit posts belong in the Sex & Sexuality forum rather than here and to keep replies PG - thanks!

selfobsessed

Oh dear OP nothing worse than feeling like this. I suggest you get yourself castrated, I hear that it will take away this frustration. Good luck It also seems to be very common in gay men, to be feeling like this, they can never keep it in their pants, on't be sleeping around, it is risky, think of HIV.

Ickle Magoo

selfobsessed banned - homophobic generalisations and trolling will not be tolerated on this forum.

gayguy2009

Could move this topic for me please, or will I just start a new thread in Sex & Sexuality?

Ickle Magoo

Hi there gaygay2009,

The Sex and Sexuality forum is a subscriber-only forum. If you already have access & wish explicit replies then feel free to post in there - if you don't have access then you won't be able to see or reply to the thread if moved. There is no issue with you asking advice here other than the replies must be appropriate for this forum.

tenchi-fan

gayguy2009 wrote: »

Does anyone have any ways of dealing with this?

Get a hobby?

On one hand you'll be too busy to **** 5 times a day.

On the other, you might actually meet someone through the hobby rather than working out with palm and her 5 sisters the whole time.

LegacyUser

I wonder if it's boredom. That happens quite a bit. When you're busy at school, work etc. you tend not to think about sex as much (though you still obviously do!). As the poster above remarked, getting a hobby of some sort will be of huge benefit to you. I can understand how you feel, particularly because I'm a gay man myself. It's very easy to get on Grindr/ Gaydar and hook up with someone for meaningless sex, but I'd caution against it. I found any experiences I've had with random sex (3-5 times in the space of two years) very upsetting. It's a great buzz but the minute you ejaculate you realise you're lying beside someone you don't know at all. A lot of guys (straight, bi and gay) do this a lot - they're mad for one night stands and that. But having a relationship and having sex with someone you trust and care about is probably the best sex you'll ever have. Hold on in there and don't bother with the random sex. Masturbation is fine, you're not hurting anyone masturbating that much, but since it can get addictive, try and space it out and find other, useful things to do in your life. Finding a hobby will give you the chance to meet new people... and you never know what might happen then!

donutheadhomer

tenchi-fan wrote: »

Get a hobby?

On one hand you'll be too busy to **** 5 times a day.

On the other, you might actually meet someone through the hobby rather than working out with palm and her 5 sisters the whole time.

its the whole one hand issue he seems to have the issue with here i think

newmember2

You're obsessed...if it wasn't sex it might be something else. You're allowing your mind to dominate your life. Try and resist this obsession. Don't keep acting (masturbating) on your obsession. Resist it and find something else to do, something constructive - and the obsession will lose it's power.

Ickle Magoo

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