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have a problem but dont know what it is

  • 12-03-2011 1:05am
    #1
    laragirl
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    hi everyone!

    i have a bit of a problem but i cant understand it. was wondering if any of u had any insight as to why i have this problem..

    ok so basically im normally a very bubbly girl but recently i'm more calm and not as happy appearing. although i am happy, i dont come across to people that i am as people have been saying to me "whats wrong?" and that they dont like me anymore.

    could it just be that im in more of a sober chill out mood or are there other reasons? what do u think?\

    the reason i ask is cos im a very sensitive person and take things to heart and i dont think ive changed so why do people think i have?????"

    people seem to prefer me when im really loud but im just tired sometimes and not in a drinking mood


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  • #2
    tenchi-fan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,339 ✭✭✭tenchi-fan


    Sounds like you're getting older. You probably do have a few more worries and responsibilities than you used to. It's perfectly normal.

    As for alcohol... it's a mood enhancer. Your highs feel higher and your lows feel lower. There's a time when you need to cut the drama and get some focus in your life and you won't be able to do that if you're drinking a lot.

    Try associating with people who appreciate the calmer, more thoughtful you and people you can relate to, rather than trying to be like the duracell bunny trying to put everyone else in a good mood.


  • #3
    cantdecide
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    You haven't gone into great detail so ill admit I'm making some assumptions here.

    It is possible that becoming the life and soul of the party for this period of time has left you with a group of drinking buddies instead of friends, IMO. If this is the case, maybe it's time to trim your FB and delete some phone numbers. If you have grown away from these people or if you no longer understand each other, it's not something that can be blamed on a particular party, it's just life.

    You should enjoy exploring your new, more mature and wholesome self. Don't beat yourself up for no longer wanting to be one of the lads all the time.


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