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Don't know where i'm going wrong

  • 08-03-2011 3:53pm
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    LegacyUser
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    I have a long term partner and for the best part he's wonderful, he's caring, considerate and I love him to pieces, however from time to time, he turns into a different person, he shuts me out and turns fairly cold towards me, he'll still "go through the motions" but it's like an invisible barrier has appeared out of nowhere, I find this incredibly hard to take, I don't know where I stand, it makes me feel insecure and unloved and it's horrible, like living with a stranger, sometimes it's during stressful times in his life, workload etc like at the moment, for the next month he's flat out in work and honestly I'm not sure If I can take a full month of lenghtly silences and reluctance to have me around. I'm no picnic myself from time to time, and we have our normal ups and downs, but this just drives me crackers, If I ask him if there's anything wrong it's a nope, If I tell him how I'm feeling at these times he'll just tell me that's his "thing" from time to time, and there's "things" about me that piss him off from time to time which I fully accept, I'm not perfect, as flawed as the next girl, but I will always talk things through and let him know why I'm upset etc...
    I don't know why I'm here to be honest, just need to get it off my chest.


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