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Still being inappropriate with her Ex

  • 06-03-2011 12:56pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Going to break this down to fundamentals

    Ex has been less than purely platonic with her live-in ex who is now her BFF - inappropriate touching, kisses on the cheek, but no kissing. Feel completely betrayed. She dosen't know I know yet. Knows she is in the wrong and is going to curtail it. Is she a bad egg and should I get rid of her? I have proof they haven't kissed recently, but will I be driven mad worrying about stuff that happened further back? At the time she didn't confess to anything, so she's hardly likely to now. Furious.


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  • #2
    Jack B. Badd
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    betrayed wrote: »
    Ex has been less than purely platonic with her live-in ex who is now her BFF - inappropriate touching, kisses on the cheek, but no kissing.

    Why do you care what she does, she's your ex? If your relationship is over, start to move on.


  • #3
    whatsamsn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    Hmmmmm,
    Am I right to believe op you were dating this girl at one point and during that period she was living with the ex of hers. As she currently still is. But now the relationship is over with her? So basically you feel that you could of been betrayed while you were dating her? (right? :) )


  • #4
    mood
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    Also how do you know about any kissing and touching? And why is she living with her ex?


  • #5
    Peanut2011
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    OP, if that is your EX, than WHO cares what she does! :confused:


  • #6
    LegacyUser
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    betrayed wrote: »
    Going to break this down to fundamentals

    Ex has been less than purely platonic with her live-in ex who is now her BFF - inappropriate touching, kisses on the cheek, but no kissing. Feel completely betrayed. She dosen't know I know yet. Knows she is in the wrong and is going to curtail it. Is she a bad egg and should I get rid of her? I have proof they haven't kissed recently, but will I be driven mad worrying about stuff that happened further back? At the time she didn't confess to anything, so she's hardly likely to now. Furious.

    On reading this, I assumed the OP made a mistake and typed "Ex" instead of "OH". Also, that the OH used to live with the ex. It makes sense that way. However, I don't know how the OP would have proof that they hadn't kissed recently. (Proof that they had kissed recently makes more sense.)


    OP, if I am interpreting your post correctly, you should talk to her.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
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    May be best to cut and run mate.
    Based on my experience the kind of people who dont know how to keep friendships with the other sex appropriate will never learn.


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