Should I send her a mail?

LegacyUser

Hi,

I was at a conference today in Limerick. I was chatting away to a few people when another group, joined our group. One of the people was this gorgeous girl...

The conference started, and then during a break I got chatting to her. We hit it off immediately. Amazing chemistry. The rest of the group just seemed to melt away even though no one really moved, if that makes sense. It was like there was no one else there - just the two of us. We had a short conversation but it immediately diverted from the usual banter. It was exhilarating, then the break ended..

I didn't get to talk to her again until later on. In the meantime, I had started thinking about how I might keep in contact with her through e-mail, or something. Asking for a phone number seemed like a bit of a stretch. Unfortunately, the prospect of this had made me extremely nervous. I didn't hear a word of what was said in the conference up to lunchtime. I was a little bit surprised at myself. I wouldn't usually get worked up like that. By lunchtime, I was like a cross between Pat Kenny and Enda Kenny, except with even less charisma.

After lunch, I said I was heading outside, and asked her if she wanted to come along. She said she wasn't feeling the best. Now it was like the first conversation never happened. It was going down the drain rapidly. I was nervous like I said, and there was another opportunity for us to talk alone, but she walked away. It was slipping away, and I knew it. At that point it's always too late, but I persisted anyway. I asked her if she was registered with a web site we all use, thinking she probably would be. She wasn't, and I didn't really have any other ideas. I had to go then. I said my goodbyes, and left.

My question is, should I send her a mail, or should I just leave it, or is this all totally nuts??? I know her name, and e-mail address, although I didn't actually ask her, for her e-mail address. It might be a bit random and stalkerish... I just thought it might be worth it since we hit it off so well, initially, anyway.

Any advice appreciated.

_Whimsical_

Personally I don't think the signs are good on this one. From what you say it sounds like the lunch chat was an intense experience on your part. I'd imagine she sensed your interest and if it was returned she would have made more of an effort to see you over the course of the day and to give you some way of contacting her. She might have a boyfriend or a million reasons why she wouldn't be into you so don't take it personally.

LegacyUser

Hey, thanks for your reply _Whimsical_ That's exactly the conclusion I had come to. It doesn't feel like it would work out, and it if doesn't feel like it would work out, then it most certainly will not.

LegacyUser

Don't do it. Sorry dude but she's clearly not interested.

Vicxas

Sorry dude i think its a bad idea, best leave it till she makes contact.