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  • 25-02-2011 4:45pm
    #1
    paddy1909
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭


    I’m 25yrs old and think I’m in love with a girl who has a boyfriend?!
    She is 23 and the nicest girl I have ever met. In the beginning I didn’t know she had a boyfriend as she never mentioned him. She used to come on nights out with me and I thought she was available. We met in woodies where we both worked part time. Then one night she mentioned to my friend that she had a boyfriend and my heart sank so low. Anyway roll on a few wks, and we’re still meeting up and doing things that lovers do… kissing a lot. Every time I mention her boyfriend and that she doesn’t really like me the way I like her, she says she does like me so much and gives out to me for ever suggesting otherwise. I just don’t understand why she has a boyfriend if she likes me? She wont fully commit to me and im finding it really very hard.........


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  • #2
    Count Duckula
    Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭Count Duckula


    A girl who is constantly kissing you and telling you that she likes you whilst still in a relationship is someone you should steer clear of, methinks. Sure, you have no loyalty to the boyfriend, but she obviously has no respect for her boyfriends - and that includes you in the future potentially - if she'll disregard them so easily.


  • #3
    Virgil°
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,466 ✭✭✭Virgil°


    1st things first, SHE IS NOT A NICE GIRL. I'm not a fan of caps but i think its needed here. Nice girls don't cheat on their boyfriends and string people along for a bit of fun.
    2nd, thats all you are. Her bit of fun on the side. If she wanted to be with you she would have dropped her boyfriend. The fact that she doesn't is a very obvious sign that she doesn't really want you. This nonsense of giving out to you every time you pull her up on having a boyfriend is guilting you into keeping your mouth shut and allow her to carry on as things are. She's pulling your strings and she knows it.
    My advice, find a girl with a conscience that actually wants to go out with you and stop facilitating this cheating tramp.


  • #4
    whatsamsn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭whatsamsn


    Come on op. You're 25 :) you should be well able to see whats going on here :)

    Shes not as nice as you think. That much is certain.
    She has a bloke and she's kissing you? .. 2 things here: She is bit of a skank and she is definitely not a girl you should have feelings for. Can you imagine what things would be like if she dumped the bf and got with you? ... You wouldnt trust her and rightfully so.

    You've invested emotions - i know thats hard for you to just walk away. But you're playing a risky game here mate. Best advice anyone can give you is to weigh things up. Take yourself out of the situation and what advice would you give.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Maybe she doesn't have a boyfriend and just told your friend she did because she thought he was creeping on her! Girls you fictitious boyfriends all the time to get out of situations like that


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