Looking up an ex

Lucozade man

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

Guy:Incognito

The absolute least that will happen is sex, thats a guarentee.

Todd Gack

Probably that you'll be €1000+ down and you'll feel like ****.

or you could just go to to bed.....you'll be sober in the morning.

She hasn't answered your emails and calls for a reason.

Sergeant

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

You'll find her in the tender embrace of a muscled Adonis, his enormous love trumpet pounding her mound of Venus.

And then you'll feel like a complete fúcking eejit.

Have a crank and go to sleep.

UrbanSea

Anyone else see a thread similar to jigsaws coming on?

mikemac

Go to bed OP

Will cost several hundred upwards to do this and that's your only reason for going?

hondasam

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

I would say she will ignore you like she has since 2008.

take the hint ffs

Lucozade man

Todd Gack wrote: »

Probably that you'll be €1000+ down and you'll feel like ****.

or you could just go to to bed.....you'll be sober in the morning.

She hasn't answered your emails and calls for a reason.

well i kind of know the chances of us getting back together are not good but then i think anything is possible, also i think going to see her in person is the one thing i didnt try, wont i always regret not trying that ?

Rabble Rabble

Id say whats likely to happen is a restraining order.

ballsymchugh

i'd give it a shot. research has shown that girls that ignore phone calls and texts are definitely in hot lesbian relationships with a fondness for the ex and threesomes (the cool kind).

you've absolutely nothing to lose.

UrbanSea

It's been over 2 years,It's well past the time to move on.
Sorry but someone needed to be blunt.

Rabble Rabble

Lucozade man wrote: »

well i kind of know the chances of us getting back together are not good but then i think anything is possible, also i think going to see her in person is the one thing i didnt try, wont i always regret not trying that ?

Life is like a box of chocolates.

Rabble Rabble

UrbanSea wrote: »

It's been over 2 years,It's well past the time to move on.
Sorry but someone needed to be blunt.

nobody else was being blunt? still, fair point. well made.

4zn76tysfajdxp

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

She could be dead.

qwerty13

I feel your pain OP, I nearly hopped on a plane to see an ex - but only after 4 months, and still being in contact.

Tbh if there has been no contact since 2008, it would be a bit weird and freaky for you to turn up. I can't imagine it would do anything but scare her. Let it go OP - easier said than done, I know; but no no NO is my advice! Hopefully you are just having a bit of a moment. Sleep well and rethink things tomorrow!

whatdoicare

I'll keep an eye on the news for how this one turns out.....

Sharpshooter

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

You'll get there to find she's moved on...again.. and possibly changed her name, I would.

Buceph

I'd say she was swimming and a shark bit off her head. The lifeguards (from Bondi Rescue, great bunch that they are) saved her and reattached it, but couldn't get back the memories the shark sucked out. Now she goes down to the beach every day with snorkeling gear and searches the ocean bottom for her lost memories. She wishes someone from her past would come back and thrust all her lost hopes and dreams back into her before you both go on an epic voyage to vanquish the head-eating memory-shark of Sydney Harbour.

starbelgrade

I looked up an ex once.

Nearly went blind.

Her legs were ginormous.

TheUsual

Do it !!

Buy one-way ticket tomorrow and do it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ra70O9nps6E

Maldjd23

Go for it i say...On one hand she will be bowled over by your desire to meet her...On the other hand she shoots you down... at least you have a great holiday!!

Sharpshooter

starbelgrade wrote: »

I looked up an ex once.

Nearly went blind.

Her legs were ginormous.

That was big of you.

admiralofthefleet

its funny, im typing this while my missus is watching theres something about mary: a film about a stalker

grungepants

dont be silly
dont be blind
other girls
you'll surely find

maybe they
wont be
like her
BUT DONT EVER GET WHIPPED BY A BITCH ESPECIALLY WHEN YOUR BROKEN UP GO **** GIRLS DONT BE IN LOVE
**** YOU KATE YOU ****!!!!

bonerjams03

She's playing hard to get, the cheeky minx... Go for it OP!

Khyra24

You do need to accept that things didn't work out and that she probably doesn't want to see you anymore.

I've been struggling myself for the past month with my former partner. My defense mechanism is to break up whenever I feel hurt (I know, it's the stupidest thing) instead of talk about my problems. He took this to the heart and has disappeared from me since. I normally have a lot of pride and am generally strong emotionally but I found myself desperately trying every possible way to contact him and he would hardly respond. In an effort to reconcile, I even booked a ticket to Dublin for last Sunday and was supposed to be there for a week (I'm from the States) but he told me not to go...so I didn't go.

Now, even though I'm $900 down and heartbroken, I never once regretted being completely in love with him and learning from the relationship. I've learned a lot about myself and I have a more positive outlook on life because of everything that's happened. Of course I'd love to talk to him again and be friends instead of never have him in my life but if he has chosen to disappear from me, I will accept and respect his decision. I've no hard feelings against him because I loved him far too much. Now, I'm just career-focused and doing things that make me happy.

As much as you may miss her, you have to accept that things didn't work out in the end and leave it at that. You take what you've learned from your relationship and you move on and become a better person. You don't want to seem like a stalker and get any charges pressed against you. Remember those fond memories, smile and go on with your day. If by chance you meet again someday and hit it off, then that's great...but don't force anything now...you'll really end up hurting yourself...and that's the worst that could happen.

Zambia

Mate seriously stand down by now she has seen more traffic than the Harbour Bridge.

There must be closer roots to you.

grungepants

Khyra24 wrote: »

You do need to accept that things didn't work out and that she probably doesn't want to see you anymore.

I've been struggling myself for the past month with my former partner. My defense mechanism is to break up whenever I feel hurt (I know, it's the stupidest thing) instead of talk about my problems. He took this to the heart and has disappeared from me since. I normally have a lot of pride and am generally strong emotionally but I found myself desperately trying every possible way to contact him and he would hardly respond. In an effort to reconcile, I even booked a ticket to Dublin for last Sunday and was supposed to be there for a week (I'm from the States) but he told me not to go...so I didn't go.

Now, even though I'm $900 down and heartbroken, I never once regretted being completely in love with him and learning from the relationship. I've learned a lot about myself and I have a more positive outlook on life because of everything that's happened. Of course I'd love to talk to him again and be friends instead of never have him in my life but if he has chosen to disappear from me, I will accept and respect his decision. I've no hard feelings against him because I loved him far too much. Now, I'm just career-focused and doing things that make me happy.

As much as you may miss her, you have to accept that things didn't work out in the end and leave it at that. You take what you've learned from your relationship and you move on and become a better person. You don't want to seem like a stalker and get any charges pressed against you. Remember those fond memories, smile and go on with your day. If by chance you meet again someday and hit it off, then that's great...but don't force anything now...you'll really end up hurting yourself...and that's the worst that could happen.

wait wait wait wait


Your well over it and obviously mature enough to handle it...


Some men(like myself)....Can be emotionaly immature(or something)and find it shocking and traumatic to lose a lover.And following the road which hurts you the most will at least make you feel something.

grungepants

Zambia wrote: »

Mate seriously stand down by now she has seen more traffic than the Harbour Bridge.

There must be closer roots to you.

Not cool

seafood dunleavy

She's probably had a sex change.

Codofwar

Go for it, if for nothing else other than an amusing story for us to read

Gummy Panda

grungepants wrote: »

Some men(like myself)....Can be emotionaly immature(or something)and find it shocking and traumatic to lose a lover.And following the road which hurts you the most will at least make you feel something.

This ^

Life is about change and you got to move on.

biko

I got a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend of mine the other day. We lost track of time chatting about the wild romantic nights we used to enjoy together. I couldn't believe it when she asked if I'd be interested in meeting up and rekindling a little of that 'magic'.

“Wow!", I said, "I don't know if I could keep pace with you now! I'm a bit older and a bit balder than when you last saw me!"
She just giggled and said she was sure I'd rise to the challenge!!!
"Yeah?" I said, "Just so long as you don't mind a man with a waistline that's a few inches wider these days!"

She laughed and told me to stop being so silly! She teased me saying that tubby bald men were cute!
"Anyway, I've put on a few pounds myself!" she giggled...........
I hung up the phone on the fat cow.

Asphyxia

Well I wish you luck

I would hate to be hung up on an ex :rolleyes:

Pocketfizz

Pocketfizz wrote: »

Well I wish you luck

I would hate to be hung up on an ex :rolleyes:

It's a joke :eek:

squeakyduck

Go for the holiday and cop off with one of her friends!

Khyra24

grungepants wrote: »

wait wait wait wait


Your well over it and obviously mature enough to handle it...


Some men(like myself)....Can be emotionaly immature(or something)and find it shocking and traumatic to lose a lover.And following the road which hurts you the most will at least make you feel something.

I don't believe it's a matter of maturity here. I was devastated when I lost him and it still hurts me every day when I think about the whole thing but I know that chasing after someone who doesn't want you anymore doesn't do anything for you. You just have to recollect yourself and be happy in your own way. Maybe things happen for a reason...the people you meet, the situations you're put into...they make you the person you are today but it's up to you to decide which path you want to take, the road of happiness or anguish.

And I choose not to take the road that hurts me the most but I still do feel something...and that's happiness knowing that I was once in love.

shrewd

this thread's topic is funny

Duckjob

Go for it. She's clearly just playing hard to get.

Jumpy

I once made a pic about such a topic.

http://i54.tinypic.com/21ozsm1.jpg

Toyota_Avensis

If she's not answering calls etc., and Sydney is such a big city? How the **** do you expect to find her??

Micky Dolenz

Toyota_Avensis wrote: »

If she's not answering calls etc., and Sydney is such a big city? How the **** do you expect to find her??

Pfft, they are only details, he can figure that out when he gets there.

Phoenix Park

I say... GO FOR IT !!!!. I have a really good feeling about this one, and when i get one of my feelings like this, well, i'm usually right..... Naughty minx, she'll be delighted, i just know it..

azezil

Izabella Fast Melon wrote: »

She could be dead.

So you're saying... sex is a definite then?

*giggidy*

derfderf

(Danny) Just go over and see what happens me ol chumly. If she says no then take out your ol mate stanley and slice her fackin face. Problem solved innit?(/Dyer)

Lucozade man

Toyota_Avensis wrote: »

If she's not answering calls etc., and Sydney is such a big city? How the **** do you expect to find her??

I have her address, well the address she had in 2008.

Sunnyisland

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

Her husband will knock you out

Ronin247

Lucozade man wrote: »

Im thinking about going to visit my ex girlfriend she lives in sidney now, she has not answered my emails, calls since november 2008. Whats the worst that could happen?

Dont forget to take the rabbit off the stove before you go

bonerm

Lucozade man wrote: »

she lives in sidney now

Most likely he has digested her by now. You should move on.

im invisible

biko wrote: »

I got a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend of mine the other day. We lost track of time chatting about the wild romantic nights we used to enjoy together...

same old, same old

Sibylla

The worst that could happen would be finding she is away somewhere, being at the loss of your money on the upside there is a remote possibility it will go very well and you'll pick up where you left off