Brilliant First Date But...

VampiricPadraig

We haven't talked since then

I have been talking with a girl for the past couple of weeks and then on Saturday, we hanged around in town together with a couple of other friends.

We kissed for the first time and we hugged and I got her presents and all that...but since then she hasn't returned any of messages anywhere...Phone, texts, Facebook..

I am really doubting this relationship and I am wondering if I should stop thinking about her and move on.

Thanks

AnonoBoy

VampiricPadraig wrote: »

We haven't talked since then

I have been talking with a girl for the past couple of weeks and then on Saturday, we hanged around in town together with a couple of other friends.

We kissed for the first time and we hugged and I got her presents and all that...but since then she hasn't returned any of messages anywhere...Phone, texts, Facebook..

I am really doubting this relationship and I am wondering if I should stop thinking about her and move on.

Thanks

Ok - ease back on the 'relationship' word. You've been on one date.

Now there are many possibilities why she mightn't have gotten back to you in the one day since the date. She could be away from home visiting someone so no internet - could be out of credit so no text.

Give her a bit of space, don't keep contacting her via every available method.

In a few days if you haven't heard back give her a call and see if she wants to meet up again. Don't bombard with her texts/Facebook messages etc. - that will make you look very needy and desperate. Not at all an image of yourself that you'd want to project.

neveah

What presents are you getting her after one date?? How soon did you contact her after the date?

You may scare her off if you are coming on too strong too soon.

mood

Was it even a date or was it that you got together when hanging out with other friends? The ball is in her court now so just see what happens. But get on with your life and try not to think about it.