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If Someone Murdered Your Partner

  • 13-02-2011 10:54pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,039 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been thinking about this lately and come to the conclusion that were my fiancée to be murdered by another person in cold blood then I would want to take that persons life with my hands. I can put aside that two wrongs don't make a right. I know the person that I am and wouldn't experience guilt or remorse for my actions if the murderer had been absolutely cold blooded in their act.

    I'm a sap in that I'm desperately in love and have been for the last 6 years and would be robbed of waking up to that person for the rest of my life. Dreaming with them, seeing their smile, listening to their stories, everything that makes life special.
    For another person to come along and rob me of that is just unthinkable. In our justice system the most they could expect to serve would be what 10-15 years? That's awful for a robbed lifetime which is why I would feel that it isn't unreasonable for me to take their life. Not by a lethal injection, not by electrocution, not by stoning or any method other than my own hands. They wouldn't be restrained, that just wouldn't be civil or fair.


    TLDR: So what about you? Were your partner callously murdered what do you feel would be justice for you?


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 21,693 Mod ✭✭✭✭helimachoptor


    Was just chatting about this earlier if someone murdered my partner or kids if I ever have any I'd strangle them with my bare hands and have them look at the hate it my eyes as the life slips from their body


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,308 ✭✭✭Ricardo G


    It would save me a lot of hassle tryin to do the bitch in myself !!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 12,806 ✭✭✭✭KeithM89_old


    Hmmm, maybe if i killed them, i could get my money back too....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,675 ✭✭✭ronnie3585


    Blast the killer with piss!


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,464 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Insurance woooooooo!!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    I'm a sap in that I'm desperately in love and have been for the last 6 years and would be robbed of waking up to that person for the rest of my life. Dreaming with them, seeing their smile, listening to their stories, everything that makes life special.

    Inception?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 383 ✭✭Scrambled egg


    Jesus theres an awful lot of threads floating around after hours at the minute about killing people. But yeah , if any member of my family or partner is harmed , I'd murder them with my hands and sharp instruments and their family too.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,464 ✭✭✭Celly Smunt


    Inception?

    we need to get deeper


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,023 ✭✭✭Fukuyama


    Don't get angry but I ****ed you wife...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    This place is very morbid recently. Is it the spring ossilation event whereby Afterhours is full of death/killing/burgler threads?

    Maybe the summer ossilation event is where we get Flutteringbantam's and co's sh*t threads. Autumn is immigration.

    Winter is the I hate Bono/McSavage/"celebrity" creepers to come out of hibernation.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,016 ✭✭✭mad m


    Jaysus OP start thinking positive/happy thoughts......


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,542 ✭✭✭Captain Darling


    This place is very morbid recently. Is it the spring ossilation event whereby Afterhours is full of death/killing/burgler threads?

    Maybe the summer ossilation event is where we get Flutteringbantam's and co's sh*t threads. Autumn is immigration.

    Winter is the I hate Bono/McSavage/"celebrity" creepers to come out of hibernation.

    I was just thinking that. Can we all not just get back to casual racism?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭zero19


    I'd find them and introduce them to Mr.12 gauge.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,822 ✭✭✭sunflower27


    Y'know OP, I'm single at the mo but obviously envisage myself down the line with someone and get what you are saying.

    I saw on the TV the fiance of michaela harte and I remember thinking how will he ever get over this (how could anyone?).

    How can anyone be expected to live through that, it's cruel and it's sickening.

    I've never been violent but I 100% get your sentiment.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,542 ✭✭✭Captain Darling


    zero19 wrote: »
    I'd find them and introduce them to Mr.12 gauge.

    Oh yes, and in answer to the OP I'd give them both barrels between the lugs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 894 ✭✭✭Willbbz


    Watch Law abiding Citizen

    Movies about a man's family who is murdered in front of him and he wants revenge

    Sums up what I'd do anyway :D


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,425 ✭✭✭FearDark


    I would go all Liam Neeson on them.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    I would pursue the matter through the courts


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 20,919 ✭✭✭✭Gummy Panda


    I'd pray to crom for revenge



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,425 ✭✭✭FearDark


    PK2008 wrote: »
    I would pursue the matter through the courts

    What would you do after the killers serve their 5 years in Prison?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,219 ✭✭✭PK2008


    FearDark wrote: »
    What would you do after the killers serve their 5 years in Prison?

    Move on with my life


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    FearDark wrote: »
    What would you do after the killers serve their 5 years in Prison?

    Go to Disneyland!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,308 ✭✭✭Ricardo G


    FearDark wrote: »
    What would you do after the killers serve their 5 years in Prison?

    Your not looking at the broader picture here
    Its 5 years of rape and soap in a sock, let them do their term and then shoot the fcukers on release !!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,238 ✭✭✭✭Diabhal Beag


    Another murder thread :eek:


    I'd probably cripple them at least.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,542 ✭✭✭Captain Darling


    Another murder thread :eek:


    I'd probably cripple them at least.

    Only a crippling? Pfft....a bit if maiming wouldnt go astray either.:pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭Blondini


    I would be devastated and find life unbearable.
    My family and friends would obviously be there for me but my life would be awfully empty .
    I would eventually have to restart my life somehow or end it all ... but damn how hard it would be to move on . It's a horrible concept.....

    But .. hold on .... you wanted to me say I'd Chuck Norris the murderers ass!!
    Yeah that's what I'd do --- Chuck Norris the bastards ass !!!
    Hangin Tough!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I'd take the Charles Bronson approach - and there'd be loads of sequels...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,132 ✭✭✭Killer Pigeon


    If someone murdered my partner, I'd have a greater share in the company ...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,542 ✭✭✭Captain Darling


    Dudess wrote: »
    I'd take the Charles Bronson approach - and there'd be loads of sequels...

    How do feel about growing the 'tache?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,466 ✭✭✭Snakeblood



    TLDR: So what about you? Were your partner callously murdered what do you feel would be justice for you?

    I'd write a harsh letter. Probably involving caps lock.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Ditch


    FearDark wrote: »
    I would go all Liam Neeson on them.


    Definitely one of my all time favourite films! " I Will Find You ..... "


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,466 ✭✭✭Snakeblood


    FearDark wrote: »
    I would go all Liam Neeson on them.

    I'm not sure what saving a bunch of Jews will do, but I'm glad you're channeling your energy positively.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭Blondini


    FearDark wrote: »
    I would go all Liam Neeson on them.

    What? <I sorry>

    No Nicee

    Unthank me if you please Snakeblood dude ....


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    Someone did murder my partner ... he had just two weeks left to retirement goddammit!!!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,986 ✭✭✭Red Hand


    I would go all Liam Neeson on them.

    Rebel against the British, gain a treaty giving your state a certain amount of power and then fight your former cohorts in a civil war and be assassinated?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,620 ✭✭✭sligopark


    PK2008 wrote: »
    I would pursue the matter through the courts

    LOL

    PK2008 wrote: »
    Move on with my life


    LOL


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,239 ✭✭✭✭KeithAFC


    Ring the police.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 811 ✭✭✭cassid


    "I'm a sap in that I'm desperately in love and have been for the last 6 years and would be robbed of waking up to that person for the rest of my life. Dreaming with them, seeing their smile, listening to their stories, everything that makes life special"

    ah thats so sweet. Would your fiancee rather you spent years in prison or get on with your life, we only have the one opportunity in this world ( as far as I know). I would hate to think of my husband doing time for a revenge murder besides I would need him to look after the little ones, their needs would be more important than his need to seek justice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,466 ✭✭✭Snakeblood


    cassid wrote: »
    "I'm a sap in that I'm desperately in love and have been for the last 6 years and would be robbed of waking up to that person for the rest of my life. Dreaming with them, seeing their smile, listening to their stories, everything that makes life special"

    ah thats so sweet. Would your fiancee rather you spent years in prison or get on with your life, we only have the one opportunity in this world ( as far as I know). I would hate to think of my husband doing time for a revenge murder besides I would need him to look after the little ones, their needs would be more important than his need to seek justice.

    I'd want my wife tracking down my killer at all costs, till all her money was gone, the robber dead, my wife in prison and all my wife had to look forward to was weekend conjugal visits with my stuffed corpse.

    Edit:
    Haven't brought this up with the missus as yet.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    davyjose wrote: »
    Someone did murder my partner ... he had just two weeks left to retirement goddammit!!!!

    MENDOZA!!!!!!!!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,408 ✭✭✭Captain_Generic


    I'd join the French Foreign Legion for the mandatory 3 years to turn myself into a weapon, then eradicate the murderers gene pool by killing him and his entire extended family, and ruin their reputation with planted child porn. I'd also steal all their bread, because no one likes running out of bread.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32,370 ✭✭✭✭Son Of A Vidic


    Yip! I kill them slowly using a variety of implements to aid the process.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,867 ✭✭✭UglyBolloxFace


    But yeah , if any member of my family or partner is harmed , I'd murder them with my hands and sharp instruments and their family too.

    Their family too?! What the **** did the family do!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,740 ✭✭✭Asphyxia


    Torture them for a couple of weeks and then kill them!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,308 ✭✭✭Ricardo G


    Leave them in a dark room and play Radiohead songs to them repeatadly for 48 hours after that i would tickle them for long periods and force them to eat the jam between my toes. Finally i would make them watch every episode of Eco eye and invite Duncan Stewart around to stimulate them with some sh!t conversation over a nice chianti and some fava beans


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,039 ✭✭✭✭Kintarō Hattori


    mad m wrote: »
    Jaysus OP start thinking positive/happy thoughts......

    Oh I am a very positive person and very laid back but I couldn't forgive someone who in all essence would have destroyed two lives and affected many others.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,971 ✭✭✭we'llallhavetea_old


    aidan24326 wrote: »
    I would cut off his arms and legs, cauterize the wounds with a blowtorch (so as not to bleed to death, make it last). then cut off his ears, balls, nose. cauterize.
    Then gouge out his eyes, cauterize again. Cut out his tongue and leave him to die slowlyly.

    jesus.. that turned my stomach a bit.

    anyway, yeah if anyone hurt my daughter i would take serious pleasure in fcuking them up for life. wouldn't kill them though, let them live a tortured life instead :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,290 ✭✭✭dresden8


    Time to get a bunch of pipe hittin n*ggers to get medieval on their asses.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 701 ✭✭✭Cathaoirleach


    I would kidnap him and inject him with tetrodotoxin, paralyzing him, but leaving him fully conscious.

    After restraining him and making preparations to ensure his prolonged awareness, I would remove his eye lids. I would then inject him with adrenaline so that he can't pass out from pain.

    Then the fun begins. (Some of you will know where I'm coming from!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 263 ✭✭marxcoo


    I would assume that he did something to deserve it and move on.


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