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So confused...

  • 01-02-2011 6:15pm
    #1
    mermaid1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


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  • #2
    blue5000
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 12,756 Mod ✭✭✭✭blue5000


    Is he married?

    If the seat's wet, sit on yer hat, a cool head is better than a wet ar5e.



  • #3
    mermaid1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭mermaid1


    No, single...


  • #4
    kerryman12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 940 ✭✭✭kerryman12


    Is he married?

    I dont see where that is coming from, I have read that post two times and dont get that vibe at all.

    Op

    If your gut feeling is telling you that there was something there, then there probably was. Ok its about a week since your last date so it would be resonable to expect him to have contacted you by now, but as you say maybe he is really busy at work.

    If he was interested in a one night thing then presumably he wouldnt have made the effort to go out for dinner on your third meeting (I am assuming "ended up together" is code for sleeping together), and even if he was only interested in sleeping with you again and you didnt after you date then his disappointment would almost certainly have betrayed him.


    In any event there is only one way to find out, get in touch with him.

    Best of luck


  • #5
    kerryman12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 940 ✭✭✭kerryman12


    mermaid1 wrote: »
    Thanks for that Kerryman. Yeah, I think he may be afraid to get in too deep to be honest... The problem is I am afraid to be the instigator again, every time I do he responds positively but I just want him to be the one to do it...

    Thats understandable, and eventually you will get sick of doing all the running if it comes to that. I would be a little carefull in that if his lifes revolves around work to that extend then you may get hurt down the road.
    But that may never happen, it could be that he realises that inspite of work he wants to be around you.

    Maybe drop a text saying something like;
    How are you doing? had a good time the other night bla bla bla. but dont be the one to ask him out on the next date, get him to do that.

    best of luck


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