Boyfriend having sex dream with employee

LegacyUser

Hi there,
I couldn't sleep last night with one thing or another. When my boyfriend was clearly having a sex dream about an employee who works for us,.. I'm so upset.... should i be? shud I say something to him?

sbsquarepants

Come off it would you!
You can't control what you dream about!

fungun

not sure about your post, think what you mean is you were awake during the night and you think your bf was having a dream about him with another woman?? Is that correct?

I guess initially Id ask how you can be sure of that, seems quite bizarre that he could 'clearly be having a sex dream', but I dont see how you can be upset. Sounds to me like you must feel insecure about this person to have jumped to this conclusion.

People dream about lots of things, some might be things they want and others might just be 'stuff', nothing to do with what they want at all. My missus once dreamt that she slept with my brother and he then blackmailed her to keep a sexual reln going!!! If Id woken during the night and heard her mumbling his name I dont think Id have jumped to the conclusion you did though....but even still, Im not annoyed about it, how could I be? Its just a dream.

If its bothering you that much, ask him about it, but sounds to me like you have an issue with him and this person in your head more than anything.

LegacyUser

fungun wrote: »

not sure about your post, think what you mean is you were awake during the night and you think your bf was having a dream about him with another woman?? Is that correct?

I guess initially Id ask how you can be sure of that, seems quite bizarre that he could 'clearly be having a sex dream', but I dont see how you can be upset. Sounds to me like you must feel insecure about this person to have jumped to this conclusion.

People dream about lots of things, some might be things they want and others might just be 'stuff', nothing to do with what they want at all. My missus once dreamt that she slept with my brother and he then blackmailed her to keep a sexual reln going!!! If Id woken during the night and heard her mumbling his name I dont think Id have jumped to the conclusion you did though....but even still, Im not annoyed about it, how could I be? Its just a dream.

If its bothering you that much, ask him about it, but sounds to me like you have an issue with him and this person in your head more than anything.

Your absolutely right...I'm a little insecure at the moment as a result of other issues I guess I made too much of it... thanks for that

dub_3

Are you sure it was just the two of them in the dream, maybe it was a threesome and you were there too.

Or was he dreaming about you and her getting in on and him just watching.

Or something entirely different.

In any case people can have the weirdest dreams, they don't mean anything except a reminder that we do have vivid imaginations ... and no control of them when we sleep.

JimmyCrackCorn

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Come off it would you!
You can't control what you dream about!

I have a friend who woke up shouting my name once beside her boyfriend. He wasn't happy about it but its no big deal. The went on to date for years.

It was some crazy dream about a car accident.

kjl

I just woke up from a sex nap there, and the person I was dreaming about is 100% not someone I would like to have sex with.