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Crush

  • 17-01-2011 10:53pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    I have a huge crush on guy I work with! thing is dun dun dun! i have a boyfriend, we have been dating for about four years, it has recently become a long distance relationship as I had to move for work.

    This probably is the first crush I have had on another man, is it normal? I guess it is just because i am away from my bf for weeks on end... but I still feel bad!

    Anyone else in a similar situation?


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  • #2
    Wompa1
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    Crush123 wrote: »
    I have a huge crush on guy I work with! thing is dun dun dun! i have a boyfriend, we have been dating for about four years, it has recently become a long distance relationship as I had to move for work.

    This probably is the first crush I have had on another man, is it normal? I guess it is just because i am away from my bf for weeks on end... but I still feel bad!

    Anyone else in a similar situation?

    You tempted to cheat? I haven't had a crush since I was in secondary school. Butterflies only came from girls I have been in relationships since. I have seen women at work that are physically attractive but in a work environment you would never see someones true personality..for me attraction is physical attraction and an attraction to the girls personality

    What are you intentions?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
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    well I don't have any intentions, its more of a he is very attractive, but yes no intentions...yet I would not trust myself around him if I was drunk or something! I guess I am just wondering if people start to feel this way when they are losing interest in their partners or long for change? Or is it just normal healthy feelings, I mean afterall, is it possible to go through your life never having a crush on anyone except your partner??

    I am beginning to think about this guy all the time though...it is driving me nuts !


  • #4
    Wompa1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,193 ✭✭✭Wompa1


    crush123 wrote: »
    well I don't have any intentions, its more of a he is very attractive, but yes no intentions...yet I would not trust myself around him if I was drunk or something! I guess I am just wondering if people start to feel this way when they are losing interest in their partners or long for change? Or is it just normal healthy feelings, I mean afterall, is it possible to go through your life never having a crush on anyone except your partner??

    I am beginning to think about this guy all the time though...it is driving me nuts !

    If you think about him all the time than surely you do have intentions and the I wouldn't trust myself around him drunk is such a cop out. It sounds like you want to go for it.

    If you go after a relationship with this guy from work he could be an unholy prick to you, whatever the downs were in your current relationship there will be similar down in any relationship and possibly even worse. The crush guy isn't perfect.

    There's nothing wrong with admiring somebody physically but if you think about someone all the time it sounds like you are 'falling' for them. In which case maybe it's time for a break up in your relationship before you act on your feelings and hurt someone that doesn't sound like he deserves it.


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