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Slight Freak Out!

  • 17-01-2011 2:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey Everyone,

    I dunno what advice I'm looking for really, just points of view from people who have gone through it maybe :)

    I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years and we broke up over the summer. I'm now completely over it, I can see it had to end and both of us are better off out of it, I wish him well in what he's doing.

    Since I've met an amazing guy!!! We've been seeing each other for a few months and have recently made it official. The thing is I've fallen for him more than I ever thought I would and now I find myself panicking every so often when I think about how it could all go wrong again just as fast and to be honest it scares the living daylights out of me!!

    Anyone else had the same and have any advice on how to get over it?


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  • #2
    LittleBook
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,716 ✭✭✭LittleBook


    SillyPanic wrote: »
    Anyone else had the same?

    Yes :)

    When I look back now and remember how scared I was because I'd told him off for something or we had a row ... :eek: I'd start over-thinking things and convince myself it was over. My friends kept me sane until the point where I couldn't get rid of him if I wanted to and now he keeps me sane. :)
    SillyPanic wrote: »
    any advice on how to get over it?

    You see it for what it is, a "freak out". So you're really halfway there to getting over it. You seem to understand why you're panicking and rather than freaking him out, you've asked for feedback and advice ... you'll be grand.

    No-one can tell you (not even him) that this will never "go wrong" so all you can do is focus on how right it is right now.

    Enjoy yourselves!!


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