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Texting Girls and Trying to be a Nice Guy?

  • 15-01-2011 6:37pm
    #1
    elspecia
    Closed Accounts Posts: 116 ✭✭


    Hey all,

    Hooked up with this girl during the week, ended up in bed with her, and we've been texting each other over the last few days and I was wondering how frequently should I text her?

    The day after i texted her first and I was first to text on the second day(well she sent me a message from the night before but i was asleep), but yesterday she texted me(first) in the evening.

    So its now day 4, i feel if i was to text her it might come across as very needy and desperate, so i'd like another perspective on this please?

    Also i have a second question, with the same girl(of course:D), i'm leaving for Oz in a month or so and she knows this, but a part of me feels kinda bad about this. We've been texting and she wants me to call to her town for a night before I leave.

    Am a bad man for this, even tho she knows this won't last past February?

    Cheers in advance


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  • #2
    miec
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 856 ✭✭✭miec


    Hi Op

    The first question I would ask you is do you like this girl. I know you are going away, as does she, but if you like her continue to text her, if not, halt the contact. Don't worry about going away as she will take care of herself, she knows the score, you could have a very nice romance before you head off, it does not have to lead anywhere, it can be a very nice brief romance.


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