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Man of rage

joinUs2 · 2011-01-14 21:03:37

I am Married to my husband for 3 years, he is a lovely person BUT he has a very very bad temper, the smallest thing makes him angry for example me asking him a question that may not suit him or using a tone that may not suit him. Driving in his car he gets angry with other driver's even when it's there rigth away and he'll…

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I am Married to my husband for 3 years, he is a lovely person BUT he has a very very bad temper, the smallest thing makes him angry for example me asking him a question that may not suit him or using a tone that may not suit him. Driving in his car he gets angry with other driver's even when it's there rigth away and he'll start shouting from the top off his voice. very seldomely he'll get angry If i haven't a clean t-shirt washed for him or one time when i hadn't the house cleaned when he arrived home (but that was a once of he'd a very bad day and i got the blunt of it). Also he gets angry if i suggest going out for a night with close friends of ours. He doesn't drink luckily or god only imagines what he'd be like. He works out and is a very tall, strong well built man. He has a heart of gold but see's red so easily. He refuses to get couciling and I'm wondering if anyone male preferrably can suggest away off helping him, thank u v.much. I love him and thats why i married him

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#2 14-01-2011 9:04pm

TeddyTedson

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Guy sounds like a beast.

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#3 14-01-2011 9:06pm

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Sounds sexually frustrated.

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#4 14-01-2011 9:07pm

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sounds like a bit of a pr!ck to be honest - no offence. have a bit of a temper myself but im not as bad as that. give him some weed maybe thatll make him chill out

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#5 14-01-2011 9:07pm

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Probably not the best forum to be posting in, may not get answers you want... My idea would be to get him to contact AMEN.

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#6 14-01-2011 9:08pm

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joinUs2 wrote: »

I am Married to my husband for 3 years, he is a lovely person BUT he has a very very bad temper, the smallest thing makes him angry for example me asking him a question that may not suit him or using a tone that may not suit him. Driving in his car he gets angry with other driver's even when it's there rigth away and he'll start shouting from the top off his voice. very seldomely he'll get angry If i haven't a clean t-shirt washed for him or one time when i hadn't the house cleaned when he arrived home (but that was a once of he'd a very bad day and i got the blunt of it). Also he gets angry if i suggest going out for a night with close friends of ours. He doesn't drink luckily or god only imagines what he'd be like. He works out and is a very tall, strong well built man. He has a heart of gold but see's red so easily. He refuses to get couciling and I'm wondering if anyone male preferrably can suggest away off helping him, thank u v.much. I love him and thats why i married him

This might not be the best place to get answers I would try Personal Issues
But to me sounds like he needs anger management courses.
I've had plenty of bad days at work but never took it out on anybody, he has to learn to control his temper some how

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#7 14-01-2011 9:09pm

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Why'd you marry a fella with a small willy?

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#8 14-01-2011 9:09pm

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Perhaps try getting him in to some variety of soothing hobby.

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#9 14-01-2011 9:10pm

TeddyTedson

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Make sure you delete your history after posting this also, I'd say your husband won't take too kindly to you telling the world about his fierce temper.

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#10 14-01-2011 9:11pm

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Please try Personal Issues OP, After Hours isn't really the place for this stuff and some of the responses will confirm that

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#11 14-01-2011 9:14pm

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Life is too short to be wasting time on people who won't let you be yourself

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#12 14-01-2011 9:17pm

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JOIN US 2 - PLS GET HELP NOW .

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OR just ring --- Women's Aid National Freephone Helpline: 1800 341 900 , pls ring them now - you really need help , don't put it off or make any more excuse's for him , good luck , hope you will be ok , cya

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#13 14-01-2011 9:18pm

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You married a pimp. Shut up and make his diner ho.

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#14 14-01-2011 9:18pm

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username suggest swingers

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#15 14-01-2011 9:18pm

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joinUs2 wrote: »

I am Married to my husband for 3 years, he is a lovely person BUT he has a very very bad temper, the smallest thing makes him angry for example me asking him a question that may not suit him or using a tone that may not suit him. Driving in his car he gets angry with other driver's even when it's there rigth away and he'll start shouting from the top off his voice. very seldomely he'll get angry If i haven't a clean t-shirt washed for him or one time when i hadn't the house cleaned when he arrived home (but that was a once of he'd a very bad day and i got the blunt of it). Also he gets angry if i suggest going out for a night with close friends of ours. He doesn't drink luckily or god only imagines what he'd be like. He works out and is a very tall, strong well built man. He has a heart of gold but see's red so easily. He refuses to get couciling and I'm wondering if anyone male preferrably can suggest away off helping him, thank u v.much. I love him and thats why i married him

I read this post and have a browse through your other posts, all I can say is god help you.

Your hubby sounds like a controlling asshole. Has he ever hit you in one of his tempers? Even if he apologised after?

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#16 14-01-2011 9:37pm

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