Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

I don't trust anyone anymore

  • 13-01-2011 12:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    Im just out of a long term relationship. Turned out that after all we had been through together, she was upto no good behind my back and lied to my face about it, when I knew for a fact what was going on. My reaction to this is that I now have a completely different look on life. I trust no one at all, bar my family. I hate it and being like this. I just dont trust anyone and I dont know if this will change. I really hope it does but this whole thing has broken me. Maybe its my subconscious trying to defend me by not putting myself into such a venerable position again, I dunno. I dont know if I was just so naive to the world before, but does everyone just look out for number 1, themselves and thats just how the world works?? People will say things to your face, they seem to be 100% honest and loyal, but if things come to a push, they will screw you over in a second if they have to. Is this it?? Is this how pathetic our existence has become?? I just CANT believe my ex did that to me, she was selfish, it wasnt like her (well, the person I thought she was) but she did it, she f**ked me right over and had a sh1te on my back for seconds. I cant trust any women again and this mistrust is now spreading into other areas of my life. Im starting to think, is everyone the same? If the one person I trusted my life with can do something like that to me, then surely anyone can??? Ahh, Im losing fate in everyone and it kills me to be like this


Comments

  • #2
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    No, everyone is not the same. Are you the same as some guys out there who cheat? Or rob? murder? etc?

    Everyone has a different set of values, but there are plenty of girls out there who would value integrity in a relationship and never do the dirt on you.

    There's no easy way to learn to trust again, but all I can advise is that you keep an open mind and don't assume that every woman you meet is deceiving you - in the long run, that insecurity will be far more damaging to your future relationships than anything else.


Advertisement