Desperatly need some small claims court help to sue HORRIBLE ex boyfriend!

jillporter1978

I live in Kentucky and have a few questions about a possible small claims suite that I would like to file ... i appreciate in advance to anyone who is able to help me out with my questions! Basically had a boyfriend who was supposed to be around for a long time to come ... instead i met him in august, moved him in immediatly and in 3 months he left and obviously the relationship is no longer existent. Within the first two weeks of him moving in to my home, he came to me needing help paying off his american express credit card balance that was actually issued thru his employer for work related expenses and he obviously had abused those privilages and was due to be fired if it was not paid in full immediatly . The amount was 454 dollars in which i paid online with an electronic check from my bank account online. He agreed he would pay the amount back in full without question . On top of doing this for him, i found myself having to give him 60 dollars or so a week to get him thru til payday (which i never expected to be paid back) and ALSO, i found myself paying ALL the bills for the home. I made it clear upon him moving in that I expected him to help me out with the bills as much as he possibly could, although no set amount was ever agreed upon. I as well added him on my mobile phone plan with the agreement that I was going to pay the 230 dollars for the phone itself as a gift, and he would be responsible for the 70 dollars a month that his phone plan cost. That phone he had from aug til november (3 monthes) so that would be a total of 210 dollars alone. He did NO DOUBT give me a total of 530 dollars IN CASH, undocumented from either of us in the ENTIRE 3 monthes he lived in my home. I feel like 210 of that should have been his phone bill and the rest should be his part of the rent/utilities/ect and believe that he still owes me the entire amount that i payed on his credit card of 454 dollars. I also checked my bank account registry online and it CLEARLY reads as the description "AMERICAN EXPRESS PAYMENT FOR ACCT OF JEFFERY S NORMAN" since the card was issued to him thru his work. Obviously I have proof that that is HIS expense and obligation! I am not asking for all the lil 60 dollar loans for whatever he needed it for, or the 230 dollars for the price of the phone ... BUT, I want to know if I have a good chance of winning a small claims case over the 454 amount AS WELL as if I am entitled to any kind of payment regarding his cell phone bill. I have to admit that I begged him repeatedly after he left to just return the phone to me, and i would give it to my son to use, and that would be the end of that ... HOWEVER, he begged and insisted that he needed the phone badly for work and he promised he would pay the bill on time if I would not interupt his service. I finally send him a msg saying that I had made the decision that I would keep my word to him, and not bother the service as long as he paid on time. That lasted one month, until I came home to find the phone laying out in my yard, in the snow, with a note saying basically for me to "screw myself, he didnt need the phone anymore, and he was done with it" ... I SHOULD NOTE that the 230 dollar, less than 3 month old phone he returned to me so nicely DID NOT work upon me finding it. It would not charge. I took to sprint, they said charging port was not working and I had to pay 100 dollars for the deductible on my insurance for a replacement phone .... NOT to mention the fact that I now have the 70 dollar a month service fee and am stuck in a two year agreement on that phone. Is there any chance he would be held accountable for any costs concerning the phone situation as well ? Thanks so much for anyone who can help me out ... im clueless about this kind of stuff!

darsar

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Mr Magners

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CabanasBoy

You moved him in immediately...
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Max Power1

An american forum?

jillporter1978

are you saying "paragraphs" because I gave way too much information or what ?? Im new to this, so I really didnt know if it was appropriate to give as many details possible or just make it short and sweet ... sorry! Ill edit it if thats the case !

Mr Magners

jillporter1978 wrote: »

are you saying "paragraphs" because I gave way too much information or what ?? Im new to this, so I really didnt know if it was appropriate to give as many details possible or just make it short and sweet ... sorry! Ill edit it if thats the case !

No, paragraphs are needed in your post, it's very difficult to read the way it is.

Also, this is an Irish website, our small claims courts would be different to yours.

jillporter1978

yes, I moved him in immediatly because honestly his ex had just put him out and moved another man in and he didnt really have a "home" of his own ... I did it thinking it would help me out on bills (thats what i get for thinking) .. I know I look like a complete idiot, but Im really not at all! I just made a bad decision while trying to help someone out who was a good friend, and then a boyfriend! I take full credit for this whole entire "dumbass" move totally ... LESSON LEARNED QUICKLY!

maglite

jillporter1978 wrote: »

I live in Kentucky

I have a few questions about a possible small claims suite that I would like to file ... i appreciate in advance to anyone who is able to help me out with my questions!
Basically had a boyfriend who was supposed to be around for a long time to come ... instead i met him in august, moved him in immediatly and in 3 months he left and obviously the relationship is no longer existent. Within the first two weeks of him moving in to my home, he came to me needing help paying off his american express credit card balance that was actually issued thru his employer for work related expenses and he obviously had abused those privilages and was due to be fired if it was not paid in full immediatly . The amount was 454 dollars in which i paid online with an electronic check from my bank account online. He agreed he would pay the amount back in full without question .

On top of doing this for him, i found myself having to give him 60 dollars or so a week to get him thru til payday (which i never expected to be paid back) and ALSO, i found myself paying ALL the bills for the home. I made it clear upon him moving in that I expected him to help me out with the bills as much as he possibly could, although no set amount was ever agreed upon.

I as well added him on my mobile phone plan with the agreement that I was going to pay the 230 dollars for the phone itself as a gift, and he would be responsible for the 70 dollars a month that his phone plan cost. That phone he had from aug til november (3 monthes) so that would be a total of 210 dollars alone. He did NO DOUBT give me a total of 530 dollars IN CASH, undocumented from either of us in the ENTIRE 3 monthes he lived in my home. I feel like 210 of that should have been his phone bill and the rest should be his part of the rent/utilities/ect and believe that he still owes me the entire amount that i payed on his credit card of 454 dollars. I also checked my bank account registry online and it CLEARLY reads as the description "AMERICAN EXPRESS PAYMENT FOR ACCT OF JEFFERY S NORMAN" since the card was issued to him thru his work. Obviously I have proof that that is HIS expense and obligation! I am not asking for all the lil 60 dollar loans for whatever he needed it for, or the 230 dollars for the price of the phone ...

BUT, I want to know if I have a good chance of winning a small claims case over the 454 amount AS WELL as if I am entitled to any kind of payment regarding his cell phone bill. I have to admit that I begged him repeatedly after he left to just return the phone to me, and i would give it to my son to use, and that would be the end of that ... HOWEVER, he begged and insisted that he needed the phone badly for work and he promised he would pay the bill on time if I would not interupt his service. I finally send him a msg saying that I had made the decision that I would keep my word to him, and not bother the service as long as he paid on time.

That lasted one month, until I came home to find the phone laying out in my yard, in the snow, with a note saying basically for me to "screw myself, he didnt need the phone anymore, and he was done with it" ... I SHOULD NOTE that the 230 dollar, less than 3 month old phone he returned to me so nicely DID NOT work upon me finding it. It would not charge. I took to sprint, they said charging port was not working and I had to pay 100 dollars for the deductible on my insurance for a replacement phone .... NOT to mention the fact that I now have the 70 dollar a month service fee and am stuck in a two year agreement on that phone.

Is there any chance he would be held accountable for any costs concerning the phone situation as well ? Thanks so much for anyone who can help me out ... im clueless about this kind of stuff!

If you have proof I cant see why you don't give it a bash.

jillporter1978

TOTALLY UNAWARE THIS WAS NOT AN AMERICAN WEBSITE OR FORUM ... I SUPPOSE I DIDNT REALLY PAY ENOUGH ATTENTION (OR ANY AT ALL FOR THAT MATTER) ... I APOLOGIZE ! THE WAY I POSTED IT FROM MY COMPUTER LOOKS NORMAL AND IN A REGULAR PARAGRAPH FORM ! IM SORRY ... ANYONE KNOW OF ANY AMERICAN LEGAL ADVICE FORUMS/ DISCUSSION BOARDS ?

bobbysands81

I LOVE Americans!!!

itsallaboutheL

www.uslegalboards.com

jillporter1978

YEA I LOVE AMERICANS TOO ... THE ONES LIKE ME WHO MAKE THE WHOLE COUNTRY LOOK LIKE UNEDUCATED, INCOMPETENT IDIOTS! ... I BARELY KNOW HOW TO CHECK MY EMAIL, MUCH LESS POST QUESTIONS ON A FORUM OR DISCUSSION BOARD! GUESS I SHOULD HAVE READ INTO IT A LIL MORE BEFORE MAKING A FOOL OF MYSELF BY POSTING TO A FOREIGN FORUM! I ENVY YOU SAVY COMPUTER FOLKS WHO KNOW HOW TO OPERATE A COMPUTER WELL! UNFORTUNATELY IM NOT ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE ... EXCUSE MY IGNORANCE! MY 9 YEAR OLD SON KNOWS MORE ABOUT THIS COMPUTER OR THE WORLD WIDE WEB THAN I DO BY FAR!

itsallaboutheL

jillporter1978 wrote: »

YEA I LOVE AMERICANS TOO ... THE ONES LIKE ME WHO MAKE THE WHOLE COUNTRY LOOK LIKE UNEDUCATED, INCOMPETENT IDIOTS! ... I BARELY KNOW HOW TO CHECK MY EMAIL, MUCH LESS POST QUESTIONS ON A FORUM OR DISCUSSION BOARD! GUESS I SHOULD HAVE READ INTO IT A LIL MORE BEFORE MAKING A FOOL OF MYSELF BY POSTING TO A FOREIGN FORUM! I ENVY YOU SAVY COMPUTER FOLKS WHO KNOW HOW TO OPERATE A COMPUTER WELL! UNFORTUNATELY IM NOT ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE ... EXCUSE MY IGNORANCE! MY 9 YEAR OLD SON KNOWS MORE ABOUT THIS COMPUTER OR THE WORLD WIDE WEB THAN I DO BY FAR!

consider this IT 101..

eamonnq

Can I move in with you??

ronaneire

Pity it wasn't posted in after hours

jillporter1978

HA! YEA SURE YOU CAN MOVE IN ... NO PROBLEM ... WHY NOT HUH ? NO, ACTUALLY EVERYONES GIVING ME A HARD TIME WHICH NO DOUBT IS TOTALLY EXPECTED AND DUE TO ME ... BUT THIS IS A FIRST FOR ME! I WAS MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS AND SINCE MY DIVORCE IN 2005 I HAVE BEEN SINGLE AND RAISING MY THREE KIDS ALONE AND NOT DATED ANYONE ... I DONT USUALLY MOVE RANDOM MEN IN BUT THIS GUY I FELT SORRY FOR AND LET MY GUARD DOWN ... BOTTOM LINE, LESSON LEARNED ... IF U MEET A PERSON WHO IS TECHNICALLY HOMELESS AND HAS NO POSSESSIONS EXCEPT A CAR WITH A FEW BAGS OF CLOTHES IN A GARBAGE BAG, THEN U KNOW ITS TIME TO RUN ... RUN FAST AND FAR! ITS IMPOSSIBLE TO TRY TO HELP FOLKS OUT THESE DAYS BC IT SEEMS TO ALWAYS BACKFIRE ON YOU!

ronaneire

jillporter1978 wrote: »

... EXCUSE MY IGNORANCE! MY 9 YEAR OLD SON KNOWS MORE ABOUT THIS COMPUTER OR THE WORLD WIDE WEB THAN I DO BY FAR!

You certainly can type with speed....




If I knew better i'd say you might trolling

jillporter1978

AGAIN IM PROBABLY GOING TO LOOK DUMB FOR ASKING THIS ... BUT WHEN I CLICK THE LINK YOU POSTED FOR ME USLEGALBOARDS.COM IT TAKES ME TO A YOUTUBE VIDEO ! IM NOT SURE WHY, OR WHAT IM DOING WRONG ... ???

Mr Magners

ronaneire wrote: »

You certainly can type with speed....




If I knew better i'd say you might trolling

Look at all the time she's saving by not using the return key to make paragraphs and the shift button to use caps.

jillporter1978

TYPING ISNT THE PROBLEM ... THATS ONE THING I GUESS I AM CAPABLE OF GETTING RIGHT ! I JUST DONT KNOW MUCH MORE THAN THE BASICS ABOUT THE INTERNET ... I KNOW HOW TO SEARCH FROM GOOGLE ... AND CHECK MY EMAIL! OTHER THAN THAT ... IM CLUELESS! HEY, THEY DIDNT HAVE THE INTERNET AND WORLD WIDE WEB WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL ... WE HAD THE OLD MODEL APPLE COMPUTERS THAT WERE BIG AND SLOW AND HAD THE UGLY GREEN TEXT THAT WAS GENERIC ... GIVE ME A BREAK FOLKS! YOU GUYS ARE RUTHLESS! LOL ... IM TRYING !

itsallaboutheL

jillporter1978 wrote: »

AGAIN IM PROBABLY GOING TO LOOK DUMB FOR ASKING THIS ... BUT WHEN I CLICK THE LINK YOU POSTED FOR ME USLEGALBOARDS.COM IT TAKES ME TO A YOUTUBE VIDEO ! IM NOT SURE WHY, OR WHAT IM DOING WRONG ... ???

have you tried turning it off and on again?

Zambia

ALL CAPS is shouting ...please stop.

Old advice

Neither a borrower or a lender be

itsallaboutheL

http://chat.lawinfo.com/

bobbysands81

Jill,

Why do you hate your ex?

Did you catch him being naughty?

jillporter1978

TO HELL WITH ANYONE MOVING IN WITH ME .... IM LEARNING QUICKLY THAT YOUR PART OF THE COUNTRY IS THE PREMIER PLACE TO RESIDE ON THIS EARTH! WHO KNEW ?? I GUESS THIS WHOLE "AMERICA LAND OF THE FREE AND GREATEST PLACE ON EARTH" THING IS JUST A BIG LIE ... WOW! I HAVE TO TYPE IN ALL CAPS BY THE WAY BC THE CAP LOCK BUTTON ON MY LAPTOP ONLY WORKS HALF THE TIME ... I CANT HELP IT UNFORTUNATLY! AND WRITING IN PARAGRAPHS ?? ARE YOU SERIOUS ?? IN AMERICA, OR AT LEAST WHAT IVE SEEN ALL ALONG, WE TYPE EMAILS, AND MSGS IN ONE PARAGRAPH USUALLY ... ITS SIMPLIER ! I GUESS U GOTTA BE FROM AMERICA TO BE SO BLESSED WITH THE ABILITY TO READ A STATEMENT THAT IS NOT IN PROPER PARAGRAPH FORM! I DIDNT REALIZE WHAT A HUGE PROBLEM IT WOULD BE TO TYPE WITHOUT SEPERATING PARAGRAPHS ... NO THESIS OR HYPOTHESIS STATEMENT IS INCLUDED EITHER ! BAD ME ... I DONT MIND ADMITTING WHEN IM CLUELESS AND DONT KNOW HOW TO DO CERTAIN THINGS PROPERLY (SUCH AS POSTING ON A DISCUSSION BOARD) BUT GIVE ME A BREAK ... IM TRYIN! IM NOT COMPUTER SAVY NOR AN ENGLISH MAJOR (OR EVEN CLOSE TO BEING ONE) ...!

readyletsgo

Jill, please stop using CAPS LOCK!!!! You are coming across as a very loud & rude american! lol:D


Edit: Trolled

Leprecunt

troll

ronaneire

Locked it up quick and throw away the key....

eamonnq

Looks like she got there!!!

http://www.theattorneysforum.com/members/jillporter1978.html

WildOscar

eamonnq wrote: »

Can I move in with you??

i'm coming too

Yllut

jillporter1978 wrote: »

I live in Kentucky and have a few questions about a possible small claims suite that I would like to file ... i appreciate in advance to anyone who is able to help me out with my questions! Basically had a boyfriend who was supposed to be around for a long time to come ... instead i met him in august, moved him in immediatly and in 3 months he left and obviously the relationship is no longer existent. Within the first two weeks of him moving in to my home, he came to me needing help paying off his american express credit card balance that was actually issued thru his employer for work related expenses and he obviously had abused those privilages and was due to be fired if it was not paid in full immediatly . The amount was 454 dollars in which i paid online with an electronic check from my bank account online. He agreed he would pay the amount back in full without question . On top of doing this for him, i found myself having to give him 60 dollars or so a week to get him thru til payday (which i never expected to be paid back) and ALSO, i found myself paying ALL the bills for the home. I made it clear upon him moving in that I expected him to help me out with the bills as much as he possibly could, although no set amount was ever agreed upon. I as well added him on my mobile phone plan with the agreement that I was going to pay the 230 dollars for the phone itself as a gift, and he would be responsible for the 70 dollars a month that his phone plan cost. That phone he had from aug til november (3 monthes) so that would be a total of 210 dollars alone. He did NO DOUBT give me a total of 530 dollars IN CASH, undocumented from either of us in the ENTIRE 3 monthes he lived in my home. I feel like 210 of that should have been his phone bill and the rest should be his part of the rent/utilities/ect and believe that he still owes me the entire amount that i payed on his credit card of 454 dollars. I also checked my bank account registry online and it CLEARLY reads as the description "AMERICAN EXPRESS PAYMENT FOR ACCT OF JEFFERY S NORMAN" since the card was issued to him thru his work. Obviously I have proof that that is HIS expense and obligation! I am not asking for all the lil 60 dollar loans for whatever he needed it for, or the 230 dollars for the price of the phone ... BUT, I want to know if I have a good chance of winning a small claims case over the 454 amount AS WELL as if I am entitled to any kind of payment regarding his cell phone bill. I have to admit that I begged him repeatedly after he left to just return the phone to me, and i would give it to my son to use, and that would be the end of that ... HOWEVER, he begged and insisted that he needed the phone badly for work and he promised he would pay the bill on time if I would not interupt his service. I finally send him a msg saying that I had made the decision that I would keep my word to him, and not bother the service as long as he paid on time. That lasted one month, until I came home to find the phone laying out in my yard, in the snow, with a note saying basically for me to "screw myself, he didnt need the phone anymore, and he was done with it" ... I SHOULD NOTE that the 230 dollar, less than 3 month old phone he returned to me so nicely DID NOT work upon me finding it. It would not charge. I took to sprint, they said charging port was not working and I had to pay 100 dollars for the deductible on my insurance for a replacement phone .... NOT to mention the fact that I now have the 70 dollar a month service fee and am stuck in a two year agreement on that phone. Is there any chance he would be held accountable for any costs concerning the phone situation as well ? Thanks so much for anyone who can help me out ... im clueless about this kind of stuff!

You have guns over there? shoot the bas!ard. save on legal expense.:cool::cool:

noelo

Ah leave it out lads.... cut er some slack.:)