Behaviour of men

Howdomenthink

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

kensutz

Calling HardLuckWoman for advice here!!!

admiralofthefleet

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

hahahahahahahahahaha trolled hard

TanG411

He's just embarrased.

Don't take offense, not because you're ugly or anything. Maybe because you are a good friend and probably feels he mistreated you.

hiscan

The demon drink at work

Agricola

He got the ride. That is all.

AnonoBoy

Were you really sh*t in bed?

That could be the reason.

Mardy Bum

The ba*tard won the bet anyway...

I didn't believe him!

Giselle

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

He said the magic words, you had sex, he doesn't want anything more and he's avoiding you hoping you get the message without him having to say anything.

And your friendships probably never going to recover because of the elephant in the room.


Edit: I'm not a man so I could be wrong...but I'm not.

Fight_Night

Fair play to him.

Oh_Noes

He da man.

Abi

All men are bastards, all women are bitches.



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admiralofthefleet

do you have a cauliflower growing out of your mary?

Scarinae

If you want serious responses, you might be better going to the Personal Issues forum

hondasam

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

8 years

was he worth the wait ?

alwaysadub

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

I'm not a man, but he wanted sex. And he got it.


You're not HardLuckWoman by any chance are you??

TeddyTedson

Fishie wrote: »

If you want serious responses, you might be better going to the Personal Issues forum

or the laughter ladies lounge :pac:

smegmar

lads, now come on I think you're being a bit hard on her just for the sake of a laugh. Don't listen to that crap.


He's embarrassed and doesn't know what to do now. Contact him in a friendly way, see what he does. Later bring up that incident and blame it on alcohol, he should be in the same position.

hondasam

alwaysadub wrote: »

I'm not a man, but he wanted sex. And he got it.


You're not HardLuckWoman by any chance are you??

That's what I thought.

The must be related

Biggins

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

First post troll? Try harder!

zuroph

have you tried contacting him?

hondasam

smegmar wrote: »

lads, now come on I think you're being a bit hard on her just for the sake of a laugh. Don't listen to that crap.


He's embarrassed and doesn't know what to do now. Contact him in a friendly way, see what he does. Later bring up that incident and blame it on alcohol, he should be in the same position.

The were in the same position on sunday the 26th.

silverspoon

I'm a woman so not the target audience but eh. Not much info to go on here. Perhaps he is just embarrassed/unsure what to do etc. Maybe Christmas got him feeling that urge for love that his day-after-Stephen's-Day hangover put paid to, I don't know.

If you want a serious discussion on this, I might recommend the Personal Issues forum.*

(This is my real opinion - I find that women tend to obsess hugely over male motives: 'What does this MEAN??' and make huge scenarios out of something that isn't necessarily there. I think in this case if you haven't heard from him over a week after he confessed that he liked you, something's amiss. If he was interested in making it more than a one-night thing, your willingness permitting, it would be more than a one-night thing by now. I don't think most men play ninja-mindfcuk, and the message here is unfortunately pretty clear. Don't waste your time worrying about a man clearly not worth wasting your time over - easier said than done I know!)

stovelid

You don't think...

http://www.chefelf.com/forums/uploads/leia_luke_kiss.jpg

Howdomenthink

smegmar wrote: »

lads, now come on I think you're being a bit hard on her just for the sake of a laugh. Don't listen to that crap.


He's embarrassed and doesn't know what to do now. Contact him in a friendly way, see what he does. Later bring up that incident and blame it on alcohol, he should be in the same position.

Thank you! Though I doubt I'll be contacting him, maybe he is just embarrassed!

hondasam

The story is very familiar, I think we have heard it all before.

starbelgrade

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Thank you! Though I doubt I'll be contacting him, maybe he is just embarrassed!

I reckon you gave him an STD.

orourkeda

Does he have a sexually transmitted disease he didnt tell you about?

Did he ejaculate prematurely?

Does he have a tiny shaft?

You have to decide which one fits the bill most accurately and inform us so we can all move on with our lives

admiralofthefleet

stovelid wrote: »

You don't think...

http://www.chefelf.com/forums/uploads/leia_luke_kiss.jpg

the fail is strong in this one

Ghandee

Howdomenthink wrote: »

My friend (good friends for about 8 years) was absolutely hammered and told me he liked me, I, in a similar state reciprocated in a little more OTT fashion verbally (been in love with him for years, never acted on it). We slept together and I haven't heard from him since. That was last Sunday (26th).

Obviously I think he's the biggest asshole ever now, can men let me know what they make of this?

Verbally?

That's where you went wrong right there!
















(you should have went for orally, or even better, anally!)

Abi

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Thank you! Though I doubt I'll be contacting him, maybe he is just embarrassed!

Thats probably it, yeah.

ronnie3585

He hit it then he quit it.

Gummy Panda

Maybe he feels he will be trapped into commitment...


... or you had a dirty stained pooper and put him off

Jim

People are *****.

Jake Rugby Walrus666

Troubles of the heart :(:(

In regard to this difficult problem and time for you would it be possible
that you could upload a photograph of yourself to this thread
now please.

alwaysadub

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Thank you! Though I doubt I'll be contacting him, maybe he is just embarrassed!

Why not?

muff03

i bet you're sound tho, haha

Howdomenthink

alwaysadub wrote: »

Why not?

Cos I'm pissed off!! I don't even really want anything from him, I'm just annoyed that he did that! I'm probably more annoyed I let him though!

Jim

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Cos I'm pissed off!! I don't even really want anything from him, I'm just annoyed that he did that! I'm probably more annoyed I let him though!

Maybe he's pissed off you wont contact him.

zuroph

So he could be sitting there wondering "why hasnt she contacted me?!" . Girls are crazy. Just go find out.

hondasam

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Thank you! Though I doubt I'll be contacting him, maybe he is just embarrassed!

he cannot be that good a friend if you dont care enough to contact him. big deal ye slept together, get over it and move on.

alwaysadub

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Cos I'm pissed off!! I don't even really want anything from him, I'm just annoyed that he did that! I'm probably more annoyed I let him though!

And what if he's waiting for you to contact him?

Giselle

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Cos I'm pissed off!! I don't even really want anything from him, I'm just annoyed that he did that! I'm probably more annoyed I let him though!

You didn't 'let' him, you participated willingly.

Hate the avoidance of responsiblity that phraseology implies.

Howdomenthink

Jim wrote: »

Maybe he's pissed off you wont contact him.

Men don't do that do they?!!

Lukker-

Maybe he forgot he boned you

alwaysadub

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Men don't do that do they?!!

Men do have feelings too ya know!

littlefriend

What happened in the morning?

Jim

Howdomenthink wrote: »

Men don't do that do they?!!

Obviously not. Maybe men aren't as petty as women or some other bull****.

Howdomenthink

Giselle wrote: »

You didn't 'let' him, you participated willingly.

Hate the avoidance of responsiblity that phraseology implies.

Fair point! I wouldn't have participated willingly if I didn't trust him though!

starbelgrade

alwaysadub wrote: »

Men do have feelings too ya know!

True.

Though we refer to those men as homosexuals.

hondasam

alwaysadub wrote: »

Men do have feelings too ya know!

really are you sure ?