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signs a flirty girl is actually interested?

  • 02-01-2011 12:50am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hi there is this super cute girl im totally into but am wondering or not if i should make a move. shes like 1 of my good friends and we live in the same estate. the problem is she is sooo flirty with me that i dunno if she is just fooling around or actually properly interested. im kinda shy so mayb she just sees my awkwardness at her flirtyness as funny.

    these are the kinda things she does:
    mess fights with me
    asks me 'would i'(as in meet her)
    when were sitting down she like rubs my shoulder or touches my hand
    she always jokes like 'pretend were going out'
    her parents always ask if were dating


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  • #2
    Spirited54321
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 32 ✭Spirited54321


    Go for it. she seems into you, what have you got to lose, ok maybe she won't reciprocate the feeling...would that be the worst thing in the world...or would it be worse just to be pining after her and not doing anything about it, and if she reciprocates then great!


  • #3
    killerking
    Closed Accounts Posts: 157 ✭✭killerking


    If she is flirting like mad she definitely wants you to grab her and kiss her. Next time you are mess fighting with her or if she is sitting holding your hand just lean in and kiss her on the lips.


  • #4
    kjl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,127 ✭✭✭kjl


    As Abe Simpson says, you will never know till you steal a kiss. I think being bashful in this situation will definitely pay off for you :)

    To be honest she has already said she likes you by asking you if you like her.


  • #5
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    Ask her out now before someone else does....


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    guys thanks but seriously i need more opinions based on the signs....i swear i can't mess this up, this is the girl i love with all my heart, i cant ruin the friendship and make it awkward...please help me with this. anyone who reads just give 1 piece of advice much appreciated.


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  • #7
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    OP - here is the short and sweet of it - while you wonder what to do - she is starting to think you are not interested. Very very soon any emotions she has for you will be filed away (been there done that).

    Really sometimes you have to take a chance - there is no point saying "but I don't want to lose this friendship" - you already have because of how you feel - just you don't know it yet. You really really must take action.

    I mean what clearer sign do you want? - she is touching you, hanging around - and her flaming parents asked if you were an item.

    I mean come off it - any more stalling - and I mean any more and any chance you had will have gone already.


  • #8
    Taltos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,830 ✭✭✭✭Taltos


    So here is what you do - next time (later today) she jokes like this - call her on it - say "ok sure lets go to x & x tomorrow for a date"....

    This gives you an out...
    But either way you need to ask her somehow. If she is really a friend she will tell you and be flattered...


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