Should I leave it as it is?

LegacyUser

Ok...so I met a guy out the other night and got on like a house on fire.He asked for my number first but then invited me back to a party. We ended up going back to his instead and we slept together. It was a great night, really intense but in great way and we really had a good laugh together. The next day we stayed in bed all morning chatting, watching tv etc. He suggested going to get breakfast together & then walked me into town where I got a taxi.

We didn't kiss goodbye or anything but he said he would text me during the week and seemed genuine enough. However I know (from experience) that guys will say they'll text when they've no intentions & he could very well be the biggest player for all I know!

I really enjoyed the night & I would like to see him again. I'm wary in case he is a player but at the same time, you never know with these things without giving it a chance. Should I text him later on in the week if I don't hear from him first or just leave it as a great one night stand?

Beetlebum

You just never know with these things. With one night stands the person is a complete stranger and could even have a girlfriend.

That's the risk you take.

I think you should text him if he doesn't text you. You have nothing to lose afterall. Hopefully he'll text you first though, if he likes you then chances are he will get in tocuh.

I would keep my expectations very low though if I were you.

Best of luck and if it doesn't work out at least you had a great night and great sex. Good for you!!

curlzy

Hey OP,

Just a heads up that the hypocrite brigade could be here in a while barating you for "giving it up too early".:rolleyes: Anyway, you had a good time and would like to see him again. If you don't hear from him, maybe text him and just say "had a really good time the other night, fancy getting a drink sometime?". If he doesn't get back to you it's no biggy, you had a great night so don't be bummed if it doesn't turn into anything else.

Best of luck.

wirelessdude01

Drop him a text and the ball will be in his court then

LegacyUser

cheers for the replies!

I'm still in 2 minds on what to do- on the one hand I would rather take the initiative & text him so at least i know what's what! But I then i think that if he's not bothered enough to get in touch with me,why bother making a move?!

Guys, does it look desperate if i text him? i know he's away abroad this weekend so wasn't sure if i should text him before the weekend or after-if i dont hear from him first that is!....ugh i'd forgotten what a head wreck this can be!

LegacyUser

well I decided to bite the bullet and text him...so the waiting game commences! Cheers for the replies folks and like ye all said, I'm not getting my hopes up!

funnily enough my female friends told me there was no hope of him gettin in touch so don't bother wasting my time texting him & that I'd look like a fool but the lads said to go for it, that it shows confidence & that they'd love it if the ladies made the first move more often!

I'd forgotten how much of a headwreck this nonsense was

Kimia

I think you were right to text him, as someone said above what have you got to lose! Let us know if he replies!