How do I move on???????

Timmythedonkey

OK, I seperated from my husband of 15 years in June and had vision's of us maybe getting back together. I had such a lonely afternoon yesterday (Xmas day) by myself with the kid's that I texted him last night to ask if there was any chance we could give it another go - Yes I have sent several messages over the past couple of months since I found out he started sleeping with someone.

To cut a long story short we had agreed for him to come for dinner today to spend time with the kid's. I have to say I spent about an hour trying to get an answer from him about 'us' and crying and generally creating but he seem's fixed on us being over!!!!

I am gutted but can't quite work out how to move on!!!!!!!!!!????????????? I have to say this is not the 1st time he has told me it's over but today was the 1st time to my face which to me makes it more real!!!

Where do I go from here???????? I feel so abandoned!!!!!! I am waiting for councelling but the thought's of facing into the new year feeling like this makes me feel absolutely lost!!!

HELP!!!!!!:(:(

yermandan

Why did you break-up?

Timmythedonkey

Just haden't been getting on for a long time (we were either arguing or not talking)

curlzy

Big hug OP, that's the pits. You really need to get a life, I mean that literally, you need to build up your life so you don't feel abandoned. Get into councelling, take up hobbies, go walking, painting etc etc. Fill your life with thing you really want to do, you seem really lost and I'd say that's coz you don't have a lot in your life, so you need to fill it with things that make you happy. Volunteer etc, just get out and about. Spend time with friends and family and work on your councelling. I think if you do that you will let him go and get on with a happy life.

Best of luck