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Should have known better........

  • 20-12-2010 1:57am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hey everyone!
    Ok, this is a long, slightly messed up story but here goes...:D
    I'm in first year of college and had a really good start. I loved everything about college and living away from home..met loads of new people and had a few flings but then I made a really bad mistake and ended up falling for a guy....with a girlfriend.( I know I shouldnt have gone there and cant understand what I was thinking so please don't judge me on that fact!)
    My own fault I know but we ended up sleeping together and we really liked each other so we kept doing it. But then he finished with me to stay with his girlfriend. I always knew he loved her but I just loved being with him and he was the first guy I ever let myself like a lot. I can't stop crying when I think of him and knowing I wont see him again.
    I really thought that he felt the same way about me cuz he told me loads that he did and it was never about just the sex.
    Im really struggling to deal with this on top of other personal stuff. He does know how devestated I am as my friends went mad at him over everything and has seen me cry. He just all of a sudden isnt bothered about me.He was such a nice guy until I started seeing him, then everyone even told me that something about him changed.
    How do I move on from this? My friends and family can't understand why i'm so upset over it...tbh I cant either. :(


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  • #2
    perri winkles
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 489 ✭✭perri winkles


    I'm sorry this is happened to you OP, but I really would see it as a lesson learned, and not to waste anymore time over him.

    In my experience, boys/men do not leave their girlfriends/wives.

    I know it's upsetting, but from your post it sounded like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Have a steady girlfriend aswell as a girl on the side to get his jollies.

    I know it's not what you want to hear, but it happens all the time. He's a player, plain and simple. Try move on as best you can, colleges are teeming with guys much better then this pr*ck

    Moral of the story, don't get involved with guys who have girlfriends! It never ends the way you want it to


  • #3
    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    heartbroken101 wrote: »
    I really thought that he felt the same way about me cuz he told me loads that he did and it was never about just the sex.

    Afraid that sounds like exactly what it was just about.

    Someone once said ''Women can fake orgasms, but men can fake entire relationships''

    Explains why he all of a sudden isn't bothered with you.

    Lesson learned I think. You played with matches by stealing another girls boyfriend and now you've got burned. Probably best to avoid that scenario in future, this guy is in no way unique in this regard.


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