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Ive been cheated on by my partner of 5 years. She admitted this while pressured and drunk and also a few other discrepencies. She blamed drink for all of it and has now been seeing a counsilor every week for 3 months and is not drinking anymore exept maybe a social one in the house at the weekend. She has gained total control of her drinking problem. She is trying to reshape who she is for herself and i suppose to a lesser extent for me, and i have no insecurities about future behaviour. My problem is that i know she slept with many others while drunk and i have found txt where she bragged about this while was sober. She is airline crew and when downroute drunk in her hotel room at 3am, phones any one of the other crew and asks if they fancy a shag.
My question to those of you who will be kind enough to treat this seriously is this: If someone is faced with having thier deepest darkest secret exposed how far would they go to stop that happening? She has denied all of this with zealous passion, punishing me in all sorts of ways whenever i bring it up. Even with all the txt she wrote about it. She is threatening to leave if i dont drop it.......Will a person throw away a family to protect their reputation? Im not going to let this go as a new relationship with her has to be based on trust and honesty. Im not interested in anything else. My guess is she will run. Any comments are welcome, especially from any women reading. Thanks.

Zen65

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My question to those of you who will be kind enough to treat this seriously is this: If someone is faced with having thier deepest darkest secret exposed how far would they go to stop that happening?

Sorry OP, can you please explain what it is you're asking, and how it relates to the information you have given us about your relationship?


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Ickle Magoo

Thread already open on this here.

I'm locking this as a duplicate.