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My bad luck

  • 14-12-2010 10:36pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi folks,

    Not really looking advice, just a rant of sorts... i think!! But all comments welcome!!

    I was out in Dublin on saturday night and ran into a girl i knew from the Gaeltacht, met her about 8 years ago. Anyway we got on like a house on fire on saturday night and spent all night in each others company, just chatting by ourselves and left the rest of our friends to sit together. We both admitted that we had a thing for each other when we were younger and I assumed she was interested. I didnt make a move or anything and just spent a fabulous night chatting to her. At the end of the night however she told me had a boyfriend and I was gutted. I genuinely thought there was something there but then again i was pretty drunk!! Anyway we exchanged numbers and all the rest but the chances of seeing her again are slim because she lives in Dublin (originally Monaghan) and I am from the North. Not that that makes a difference cos she has a boyfriend anyway! We were texting sunday and monday evening there and she just kinda spelt out that she wasnt interested. I had come away from saturday night and couldnt get over how i felt about this girl and still cant stop thinking about her. But i suppose i just have to get over it!! Trouble is, i cant help thinking there is more to this all........That's life! My bad luck i met her when she has a boyfriend :(

    Rant over, feel free to comment and tell me im a douch bag!!


Comments

  • #2
    booboo88
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,107 ✭✭✭booboo88


    ah hun no one thinks your a douche bag, it was kinda of unfair for her not to spell that out from the get go.


    Cliche alert
    plenty more fishies in the sea, who are single :)

    oh and *hug*


  • #3
    tenchi-fan
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,339 ✭✭✭tenchi-fan


    I think you're wasting time thinking about her.

    She probably thought it was cute that you both admitted you liked each other. End of the day that stage of your life is over, you're not kids any more, she has a boyfriend, she lives a long distance from you, she's not interested, and it sounds like you're grasping at straws... Stop obsessing over her.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    In fairness to her OP, she DID spell it out the night you met her - she told you she had a boyfriend, which is my book, means she's off the menu.

    It's hard luck now OP, but you just never know what's around the corner - who knows how happy/unhappy she is with her bf? I wouldn't take this as a rejection, just bad timing - seems like you got on well etc, and who knows where it might have gone if she'd been single?

    You'll be out next saturday and what's the odds you'll meet someone else? Best of luck op ;-)


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