Is there any chance she likes me?

John 187

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AthAnRi

Ask Her out. If she doesn't like you "like that" them she'll turn u down. You'll get over it.

popcorntea

ah you seem like a lovely guy. ah sure why don't you ask her out? you could send her a text asking how she is and if she wanted to meet up for a drink? i dunno about going about it but i think you should ask her

so the two options are if she says yes, happy days! she obviously likes you as a friend anyway for definite anyhow if she says no and least you'll know where you stand and it might be awkward for a bit but you's can get past it.

best of luck

LegacyUser

Be careful here OP. I'd say she already knows you fancy her (not a dig at you, fancying someone is hard to hide sometimes!!).
By all means, ask her out. But be decisive, don't be a lapdog, don't think that she's a little princess who needs you to take care of her. The last thing she needs is a doormat. Be your own person, there's nothing sexier than a man (or woman) being his (her) own person.
Good luck

John 187

I asked her out she said no.

deereidy

Nevermind, you sound like a nice guy so it's her loss. Like you said, she's bad at picking the right guys :P

John 187

Thank everyone for your help and advice, thanks again.

popcorntea

ah hard luck, you sound lovely so keep the head up, plenty of nice girls still out there

John 187

I don't know kinda back to zero now. We were out tonight again. Jane was a bit cold to me as she was on the look out for a man. I stayed away as didn't fancy seeing her cop off with some random guy in the club.

But I tried everything. Four different online dating website, only found time wasters who wanted noting more then text/chat. I tried every course/activity going. Salsa, guitar, acting etc found more so people older then me or people in thier own little group and hard to fit in. I did meet one girl who I like and she liked me, but said she won't go out with me as her Dad would kill her, she 22! WTF.

I have problem being shy and not to talkative but tired to break out of that and be more sociable. Going out most weekends trying to make new friends and yet still noting

I started reading books cause I thought might meet someone through book club type thing but again older crowd. Seem girls around my age are in long term relationship or not intrested in me. There are younger girls but would like someone more my own age or even a little bit older. Maybe living in a small town limits me.

Sorry for going on but at's wit end with this whole thing and dreading thoughts of christmas/new year and then the Jan blues.

pwd

You might come across as a bit desperate. Learn to be ok by yourself. Practice talking to women, without necessarily having an agenda. Pay attention to them and learn to read them.

John 187

I have more female friends more then ever, but I was really just feeling sorry for my self last night. It was my birthday during the week and two friends got engaged for christmas, Im happy for them but you a little envy in there as well plus I have the joy of going to my younger cousion wedding in March.

I little embaressed about being this open and like to delete/lock the thread how do I do that?