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Depressed over Relationship

  • 19-11-2010 10:26am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have been to my GP who diagnosed me with acute depression. He advised excercise and has given me the number of a councellor should I feel the need to visit one.
    This has literally come on me overnight. I have been seeing someone from the summer. She lives in the UK, I live in Ireland.
    I have been over, she has been to see me. For some reason after my last visit I fell into a depression the day after i came back and have been like this since. I have been extremly low and have lost my appetite meaning I have lost weight. I think the depression is stemming from the fact that I cannot see her regularly. It may also be that deep down I know this will never work and at 33 I am fearful that time is running out for me to find someone.
    I am over to visit her next week and intend ending it in the hope that I can get myself back on track. Is this the correct course of action? I have never felt as bad as I have the last couple of weeks and I want to get myself sorted. Any advise?


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  • #2
    Feeling Groovy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19 ✭Feeling Groovy


    Maybe dont jump jump the gun about not thinking it will work. If you feel like you can talk it out with her about maybe getting closer together then maybe that could be an option. Is it her or just a relationship you feel you want? I would try and see if you could both possibly make some sacrifices in order to take it to the next level. You may as well go for it rather than end it based on your own thoughts. You have nothing to lose if you feel like time is running out!


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