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BF left more than he should have behind

  • 11-11-2010 10:20am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay,

    There's no nice way to put this and I really need advice. My BF who i'm only seeing a couple of months seems to have left something behind after the last time we slept together. I was bathing the other evening and I could feel something in the nether regions. It seems a condom went inside me. I know I was quite drunk one night when we did it about a week ago but he is sure he disposed of it afterwards and he wasn't as drunk as me. I haven't told him about this and don't know whether I should or not. I'm freaking out a bit to be honest. Any advice please?


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  • #2
    Nevyn
    Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    IF that has happened then you could be pregnant or have gotten an sti.
    I'd be furious about it, I suggest you get tested and confront him.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    but he is sure he disposed of it afterwards and he wasn't as drunk as me.

    ehh i'm not being smart here but if you found a condom inside you he obviously didn't!? How else would it get there?!

    He's lying.
    Doesn't really bode well for the future OP
    I don't care how drunk he was - you either remember disposing of a condom or you don't, if you don't, again...why lie?
    You should absolutely confront him, why on earth would he not tell you.
    Are you on the pill?
    If not then there is a real chance you could be pregnant, there's also a chance you could also have an sti.

    Personally i'd dump him straight away, i take my sexual health very seriously and its just so completely disrespectful of him to not tell you about something like this.
    IF that has happened then you could be pregnant or have gotten an sti.
    I'd be furious about it, I suggest you get tested and confront him.
    +1


  • #4
    iceman777
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 134 ✭✭iceman777


    Is it still inside you?
    It has to come out or it may cause an infection. It's not good to have a foreign object such as a condom internally for a long period of time and also because of the contents.

    Sorry to be crude, but you will either have to go after it yourself or ask your OH to help you remove it. The best thing to do it lubricate yourself and manually remove. It's not as difficult as you think to reach the condom in this manner.


  • #5
    [-0-]
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,981 ✭✭✭[-0-]


    iceman777 wrote: »
    Is it still inside you?
    It has to come out or it may cause an infection. It's not good to have a foreign object such as a condom internally for a long period of time and also because of the contents.

    Sorry to be crude, but you will either have to go after it yourself or ask your OH to help you remove it. The best thing to do it lubricate yourself and manually remove. It's not as difficult as you think to reach the condom in this manner.

    Either that or a GP. But yeah, get that thing out of you ASAP and try not to puke in the process.


  • #6
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for the replies, yes it has come out that's the only reason I knew about it, nearly died is an understatement. He said he disposed of it the next morning, perhaps it was a genuine mistake, ie he used more than one and didn't remember i've told him and will talk to him about it properly when I see him.


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  • #7
    fungun
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,120 ✭✭✭fungun


    well if you used more than one, it could be a genuine mistake.....although i can see why you would be worried etc i really cant see why you would be furious with him.


  • #8
    chirogirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 227 ✭✭chirogirl


    Speaking from experience of this incident. This happened to me, we'd just finished the 'act' and both realised the condom was missing. Neither of us could remove it, so we went to the A & E, where they kindly fished it out for me and sent me on my way with the morning after pill.


  • #9
    Darthhoob
    Closed Accounts Posts: 339 ✭✭Darthhoob


    this has happened twice to me and the OH...once he was drunk but still noticed that he didn't need to remove it and so we went on a search...only for it to plop out later LOL. i honestly dont get how you can be that drunk you dont notice a condom going missing from your dick but you are able to fully function during sex :confused:


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