Is she cheating?

LegacyUser

the other half of 6 years was on a night out with pals from her old school last weekend.. she came home late enough and had a horrible hangover/come-down the next day.. noticed bruises on her arms, bum, and back. she says she fell over.. am i being completely para? she's bruised before after sex, i havent slept since cant stop thinking about it.

dudara

In all of your 6 years together, have you gone out with your friends and gotten fairly drunk? I'm sure you have.

TBH - your girlfriend sounds like she bruises easily, so it's entirely possible she fell while inebriated. Without more information, I think you're reading too much into it.

Now, my question back to you is, why are you even thinking this? Is there something else going on that is making you suspicious?

LighterGuy

The bruises on her arms, bum and back could be generally caused by falling down while drunk.

So far you dont have much information other than that to suggest cheating. Is there anything else tho that might be making you think perhaps she did?

Also you said she came in late. We talking 3am here? or something like 6am?

IrishEyes19

To be perfectly honest, Ive bruised before while completely sober and wondered where did that come from.
So if she was drunk I'd say the chances of her falling are high and secondly, if she came home, I'd question the amount of time she had to sleep with someone else. As lighter guy said, was it 3am or 6am. I mean if it was 3am, sounds like she was with her friends all night, Id be a little dubious if it was 6am, but even then she could have crashed at friends for a bit after the night out.

It sounds like you've had suspicions before this, OP, bruises on an arm just doesnt really sound like enough evidence.

perri winkles

Yes you are being paranoid.

I can't count the amount of times I've discovered unexplained bruises after a night out.

Have a bit more faith OP! You've been together 6 years. You should trust her

LegacyUser

Deffo paranoid man. But you need to ask yourself why you are thinking this. Has she cheated on you before, does she overtly flirt when you are there which makes you insecure that she might go further with someone when you arent here, have you cheated on her in the past and think she will do the same to you?

Believe me i wake up some mornings with bruises on my legs and arms that i must have gotten in work and i dont even know how, never mind brusies after a night out.

I cant understand why bruises and a hangover would lead you to think she cheated... sounds lke she had a great night out!