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LegacyUser · 2010-11-07 03:56:42

Long story short, came back early from a night out "with the lads" after I was in the nightclub and I realized out of all the women there I neither wanted, or liked, any of them. My mate saw a group of women and asked if I wanted to go and talk to them, I said no, and when he asked why it hit me like a ton of bricks. The…

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Long story short, came back early from a night out "with the lads" after I was in the nightclub and I realized out of all the women there I neither wanted, or liked, any of them. My mate saw a group of women and asked if I wanted to go and talk to them, I said no, and when he asked why it hit me like a ton of bricks. The girl I do like wasn't there. I just had to leave then, quickly made my excuses and left. I actually felt quite emotional, which is strange for me.

Anyway, about the girl, lets call her Jane. Ive known her for quite a while, she is a friend of a friend, and actually said friend said I should ask Jane to my grad as I was kinda stuck for someone. We went and had a great time. We hooked up a few times over the summer, however she didn't seem too keen on anything more, and tbh I was ok with that. I would have really liked something more, but it wasn't the end of the world when she didn't seem too keen. Basically when I asked her if she wanted to do stuff, like meet up with just the two of us rather than the whole group of friends, she would say "maybe" and non committal stuff like that. I interpreted that as not wanted to hurt my feelings, and didn't force the issue. Should I have?
She is rather strange, or maybe im just stupid, but at times I would think she liked me, and at other times I wouldn't. Basically I ended up thinking that she was stringing me along... For instance if I wasn't paying any attention to her she would start flirting with my friends, pretty sure this was to get my attention. But it always ended up with just me and her at the end of the night, usually with me and her kissing before I made sure she got a taxi home safe and sound. But then she didnt seem to keen on meeting up again with just the two of us. Strangely she seemed really shy and coy when she was talking to me about stuff like that, which is not like her at all.

Also I am 19 and really dont have that much experience with girls, I went to an all boys school and all my time was taken up studying, to my detriment. But im not shy or anything. Just not very experienced at this type of thing. Just thought that may be relevant.
Anyway, as I said it really struck me tonight. And basically I feel like absolute **** now, terrible. Very down I also feel really confused and a bit drunk too.

Basically I want some advice, or something.

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