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  • 04-11-2010 12:17am
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    LegacyUser
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    I don't know what to do. I've just been through a huge crisis in my life. I had lost my job, lost the one I love and lost my home ( which I was evicted out of a few days ago. I am now sharing a one bedroomed flat with my ex ( my childs father) we don't get on and he argued with me tonight that he can't have me or our child here. He offered to put us up as we had nowhere to go. He is a born again christian but although he is good at times, he throws it back at me that I am not born again and he uses this against me. But thats not all, he told me this is his place and I have to do what he says, and he gave out to me for leaving the tv on when he told me to put it off. I feel so trapped.

    I got a new job and am starting work shortly. So I will be able to pay for stuff. Thing is I dont know how to handle things in the meantime. I have been under terrible stress because of losing my house and now I am under more stress because of my ex and my situation. I don't want to go into a homeless shelter or such like.

    I do intend to move out as soon as I get my finances sorted but lord knows how long that will take. I am afraid of my ex as he has a very fiery temper and can be controlling. I know it is his place but I will help him out with bills when I can.

    He told me that him and me don't get on, and that I must do as he says. I do know its wrong. I didn't argue back at him, I just let him say what he had to say but none of it made sense.

    I don't know how in the meantime I can cope with this. I am not on any medication or anything. I just need some advice, ideas or support. I just don't know how to get through this.

    Please help

    Thank you


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