What do you think

Bb4sure

Out of a relationship which ended on good enough terms, went out one night after breaking up with her and while drunk she started saying smart comments and gesturing behind my back (we were out with her friends) I let her know the next day fairly swift I wasn't having it. Now to add to this she decided she would go ****, suck, one of my mates while telling me she wouldn't be able to go off with anyone so soon after we broke up. I knew she had went off with someone by the way she was the night she txt me. So I said it to her the next day, she didn't take long to fill me in saying how bad she felt telling me etc. I know the guy and got on well with him, now she's ****ed that up. I know it takes two to tango but still. She was the one that if 1 of her mates or any girl left me comments on a social networking site was sending me angry messages all day. We had been living and together for some time and were in a fairly long relationship. What would you do to this biatch to serve her up proper???

IrishEyes19

Bb4sure wrote: »

Out of a relationship which ended on good enough terms, went out one night after breaking up with her and while drunk she started saying smart comments and gesturing behind my back (we were out with her friends) I let her know the next day fairly swift I wasn't having it. Now to add to this she decided she would go ****, suck, one of my mates while telling me she wouldn't be able to go off with anyone so soon after we broke up. I knew she had went off with someone by the way she was the night she txt me. So I said it to her the next day, she didn't take long to fill me in saying how bad she felt telling me etc. I know the guy and got on well with him, now she's ****ed that up. I know it takes two to tango but still. She was the one that if 1 of her mates or any girl left me comments on a social networking site was sending me angry messages all day. We had been living and together for some time and were in a fairly long relationship. What would you do to this biatch to serve her up proper???

Do nothing to her, OP, the relationship ended well as you said, I dont understand how you or your ex can have such a hold on each other after it has ended. She's perfectly in her right to go off with someone a minute after you break up if she wants and same goes for you. I dont see why either of you can put a limit of time on when and how you can see someone.

Fair enough she sounds like a drama queen, a lot of girls are when relationships end, its weird coming out of a commitment and starting over. Often impulse is to give out and make the ex seem as bad as possible, not all do it, but its often is a survival mechanism and a way of recovering. Now its not on going off with the guy you know especially if she was aware of it, but again, she's your ex. Its time to take the label of this girl and realise she's not yours to commit to anymore, you dont really have any right to be annoyed with her going off with someone so fast.

She does need to to grow up a little and stop shoving it in your face. But hey what was the point of letting her know how much that annoyed you. Again, you are broken up. Not your problem anymore,

Your question here, what you can do to get one over this girl!!! Walk away is my advice, walk away now or you'll suffer the consequences. Thats anger speaking now, even your post is angry and degrading towards her, calling her a b***h, really now!!! It was a good breakup as you said, good terms enough. This was once the girl you called your gf and show her and yourself some ounce of respect by walking away, even if she doesnt.

She will notice your dismissal and ignoring her little games a lot more than if you react to them. Reacting is what she wants, you are fuelling her fire.

Walk away, move on, delete, block her number if you must. Dont fuel her games.

Beruthiel

Bb4sure wrote: »

What would you do to this biatch to serve her up proper???

Nothing.
And if you have any sense at all, you should move on with your life and quit having any kind of contact with her whatsoever.
Cut her completely out of your life, otherwise you will find it extremely difficult to move on.

dudara

Bb4sure wrote: »

What would you do to this biatch to serve her up proper???

Do nothing. Move on and leave her to her own devices.

Seriously, if you're an adult, you really shouldn't need anyone to tell you this.

LegacyUser

Why were you out with her and her friends? She's your ex! I don't know why you'd be socialising with her shortly after breaking up. Odd.