break or break-up

mainstreets

Iv been with my boyfriend for over a year now , we have had our ups and downs through the year and went through alot together . Lately , in the last month , we have had alot of rows . It came to breaking point on sunday were we broke up in a row , i told him i didnt want to be broken up but i wanted a break , and i asked him what he wanted and he avoided the question saying i hurt him because i had gone out the night before. i couldnt get it out of him weither this was a break or break up to him . when we broke up he said that was it we were finnished . but we were both angry . i dont know what to do now , im avoiding contacting him but i do not want this breakup i want a break for a week . can any one share any advice to me on this . will i avoid contacting him or what im a little bit heart broken

LegacyUser

All you can do is contact him and apologise and see if he is open to the pair of you clarifying the situation. By a "break" do you mean keeping out of eachother's hair for a while? Or do you mean a defined period when you will not be "official" anymore? The latter is just silly, the former might be a good idea.

OP, if he doesn't want to talk about what he wants, move on.

All the best.

Moomoo1

ms, you are doing it again. Will you ever learn not to break up with your bf to teach him a lesson?