Heart Broken

LegacyUser

Hi all,
I m absolutely heart broken after my girlfriend of 7 years ended by saying she wanted to see other people.
What makes it worse is we have a house so we have to be in contact over the next few weeks.
At first I was numb to it all and was just drifting along but at the weekend my heart actually split open and now I just cant think of anything else. The pain itself is horrendous, I know its only fresh but I'm really lost here and just don't what I can do to stop it.

Got drunk at the weekend but that made it worse.

Parents were so supportive but I suffer from a particular psychological problem and relied on my girlfriend when things got bad. Now she is gone and I just can't help feeling so alone and depressed.

I hate to say, but thoughts of doing something stupid have entered my mind.

I just want the pain to stop!

Is there anything I can do

Ickle Magoo

If you are considering harming yourself at all you must contact qualified medical personnel and tell them how you feel, we are neither qualified nor able to give advice regarding self-harm or suicide.

Here's some useful links:

http://www.irish-counselling.ie/

http://www.dublinsamaritans.ie/

http://www.mentalhealthireland.ie/

http://www.grow.ie/

http://www.aware.ie/

http://www.shineonline.ie/

Mr Marri

Hang in there!

Don't be afraid to go off and have a good cry, throw your toys out of the pram. buy yourself something you want.

Oh and milk the sympathy for all it worth, nothing like a bit of tlc to put the world to right.

It takes time but you'll get there.

hightower1

Mr Marri wrote: »

buy yourself something you want.

Sage advice there, bad break ups are some of the worst things in life but buying shiny new toys is always a nice short term pick me up.
Go for a three in one too and get a new wardrobe... you feel great...that'll get you female attention...and the best revenge is looking awesome!


SUIT UP! and I s**t you not actually wearing a casual suit for a week no matter what your doing will guarenteed make you feel better!

LegacyUser

Thanks for the links. It just get so bad!

Right now things have picked up and I m in the frame of mind I would never do that but when it gets bad I just want it to stop.

Its the pain of the break mixed in with the pain of my condition which of course is aggravated by stress.

Buying something nice sounds good but unfortunately we bought a house together so while it might be amicable I will still need to give her x amount to walk away, so I'll need every penny.

Definitely looking good is top priority, as childish as it is she became very obsessed with me putting on a stone and I would love to loose it and be dressed up for next time we meet.

Thanks for your responses all. I can see my self coming back here when things get low over the week.

My family were amazing at the weekend for supporting me and I am actually in therapy once a week so I'm sure that relief a lot of the pressure and hopefully pain.