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Americangirl1 · 2010-10-11 02:55:24

Yeah, so has anyone ever been in one of those relationships where you've been together for a year or 2 and have broken up numerous? I'm in one of those, where you love them, you can imagine your life with them, but then one thing goes wrong and it just messes everything up? I had broken up with my bf about 4 weeks ago,…

11-10-2010 2:55am

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Yeah, so has anyone ever been in one of those relationships where you've been together for a year or 2 and have broken up numerous? I'm in one of those, where you love them, you can imagine your life with them, but then one thing goes wrong and it just messes everything up? I had broken up with my bf about 4 weeks ago, because we both said we were bad for each other, and then 2 weeks later he comes knocking on my door at the crack of dawn and starts hugging me and looking all sad, of course he was there to get me back, but I refused, I later asked him if he wanted to hang out, you know just as friends, and then he takes me somewhere quiet and ask me again, I refused and then we just had this awful break down and were back together.

We promised each other this and that and blah blah blah, and he really is trying, but I can't seem to keep my cool. Should I just go ahead and break it off and hurt him now instead of later. He told me he realized he was in love with me and wanted to try again, this time both of us giving one hundred percent. I love him I really do, but I was leaving for Ireland in March and I still plan on it, but I feel like he may hold me back from doing it when it comes down to it. I was going to go for 2 months, but then decided once we got back together to go for a week or two. I don't want to regret something that I never did in my life, when I choose another path that may be good or bad in the end. Should I just keep going with my plans for 2 months and hold back going until I know what I want to do, or what. Incase something happens I can make break for it and just be gone for a bit, ughhh. Sorry this was long, but im mad confused here. Any opinions.

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