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I need advice plz...

  • 10-10-2010 1:10pm
    #1
    BrianSlipknot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 60 ✭✭


    Hi, me and my girlfriend are going out 2 months but subliminally about 6 months cause we never got with anyone else.

    Anyways we love each other and have said this on numerous recent occasons. Now we are split up because of an old problem my now ex has. She just "doesnt do relationships". Never has before. We got on grand now its sprung up again and ruined everything. She says she needs time so wer not meeting up etc, txting in between to help.

    I dont know what to do, we talked for the "last time" last nite in person and we both said we love each other and if she was to be in a relationship it would be with me. Im so confused. I want to give her space but im afraid too much space will distance us.

    Help? :(


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  • #2
    BrianSlipknot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 60 ✭✭BrianSlipknot


    Bump?


  • #3
    kylith
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,737 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    She says she loves you but she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you? It would depend on whether or not you're happy with that, but the fact that you're posting here would indicate to me that you're not. 9 times out of 10 when someone says that they don't want a relationship what they really mean is they dont' want a relationship with you. It sounds to me like she may be stringing you along.

    I think you should have a long think about whether you're happy to go on as ye are, or whether you'd be better off finding someone who loves you and wants to be in a relationship with you.


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