Go for it one more time?

LegacyUser

Long story short: I (male) dated a girl around 6 months ago but things didnt pan out due to hectic schedules at the time (both studying for end of year exams). After a few weeks we parted ways but were unsure of what we wanted so never got closure. Now recently I have gotten back in touch with her through another friend, and am sorely tempted to send her a private message through facebook (since i no longer have her phone number) asking her if she'd like to go for a tea/coffee sometime soon...should I?

We do have common interests and did get on quite well, although i was not overly romantic at the time since it was quite a long time since i'd dated and a little unsure of how to initiate closer contact...i feel it would be worth a shot, just hoping some others can put their own opinion here too

music lover 2

Yeah contact her can you get her phone number? Or yeah facebook is an option.If you got on well and circumstances weren't right why not?Just be sure its for the right reasons .What I mean by that is that there was a attraction there and you got on well.Thats my tuppence worth:)

IrishEyes19

I say go for it, if you miss her and truly want her back. You have nothing to lose really.

LighterGuy

Basically you only ever give it another shot when the original ending did not end bad.

if two people broke up over:

- being too busy.
- over something stupid or trivial.
- ... Basically, to sum it up, when two people ended it when they would of gladly continued.


you fall in that category so yeah you can give it shot.

you should never EVER get in contact again when it was a bad ending eg:

- lies
- cheating
- fighting alot
- clearly showing signs they werent into you
- relationship was dead.
- etc.


So op give it a shot if you like. However, you wouldnt know. Still might end up bad. She could be seeing someone etc. But nothing ventured nothing gaineded and all that jazz.

Chicago Chick

Go for it, they worst she can say is no. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck with it.